How to know if your ready to stop self harm?
i realy dont know if im ready to stop or not. i hate it but i cant live without it or stop i just keep having relapses. iv tryed lots of ways to stop.do you know any different ways exept for ice, drawing or playng an instrument or an elastic band or walkin/running?
Answer:
You know what..?... when you figure out that whacking pieces of your self off is insane, and that when you DO it, your mind is running on empty, and what motive there is impelling you is sick, you wont be vacillating any longer...you will just instinctively choose to live a greater normality than you have chosen previously...and realize one day how utterly useless were all those hollow demonstrations of self contempt.
'Recovery' from self abuse is an 'inside' job,..one dune in ones own mind. If you are still refusing to take your own inventory to discover the motives, reasons, and objectives for your behaviors, you wont quite.
What are you afraid of...?... YOU ?
Get off the fence.
Do the work.
There are no sober grams from any gods, here, there, or elsewhere.
You have some perfectly good answers here...functional..inteligent. workable..and astute.
None of them worth a dog turd if you continue to ignore them.
YOu are tready to stop as soon as you start. Seek help.
You're always ready to stop. You shouldn't even have started.
You are ready to stop. By asking this question, you have clearly stated that you are ready to stop. I hear you loud and clear. You are ready to stop!
get help, because one day ur going to like it so much that its going to end ur life.
You are ready. Seek help. Perhaps get meds if you are obsessive/compulsive.
It doesnt really matter if you are ready or not, its whether or not you decide to be serious about it. Look, im sure youve tried many ways to stop, and theyve all failed, so please be open minded to my idea. I say you pray about it. Ask GOD for the strength to realize that you have so much life to live, and it isnt worth it to go on hurting yourself when you can just move on an make so many wonderful things happen in your lifetime. There have been some very hard times in my life when GOD was the very last one i tried to go to and found that it works better than anything. If you feel unpassionate about it then, guess what, ask for the passion, just force your sef and do it and you may be amazed at how much strength GOD gives you. I wish you the best.
once you realize its wrong and you need help then you are ready.
The fact that you asked this question shows this and you have infact gone a step forward from realising you need help to actually seeking for help.
WAY TO GO!
You are ready SO PLEASE CONTINUE THE WALK BY SEEKING A DOCTORS HELP.
You'll be fine.
see my question on alternatives for ideas, there are a lot. please if you wanna talk about it email me, i kno how you feel - need/want to stop and yet need/want to keep going. it's so difficult and confusing.
stay strong, stay safe.
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Answer:
You know what..?... when you figure out that whacking pieces of your self off is insane, and that when you DO it, your mind is running on empty, and what motive there is impelling you is sick, you wont be vacillating any longer...you will just instinctively choose to live a greater normality than you have chosen previously...and realize one day how utterly useless were all those hollow demonstrations of self contempt.
'Recovery' from self abuse is an 'inside' job,..one dune in ones own mind. If you are still refusing to take your own inventory to discover the motives, reasons, and objectives for your behaviors, you wont quite.
What are you afraid of...?... YOU ?
Get off the fence.
Do the work.
There are no sober grams from any gods, here, there, or elsewhere.
You have some perfectly good answers here...functional..inteligent. workable..and astute.
None of them worth a dog turd if you continue to ignore them.
YOu are tready to stop as soon as you start. Seek help.
You're always ready to stop. You shouldn't even have started.
You are ready to stop. By asking this question, you have clearly stated that you are ready to stop. I hear you loud and clear. You are ready to stop!
get help, because one day ur going to like it so much that its going to end ur life.
You are ready. Seek help. Perhaps get meds if you are obsessive/compulsive.
It doesnt really matter if you are ready or not, its whether or not you decide to be serious about it. Look, im sure youve tried many ways to stop, and theyve all failed, so please be open minded to my idea. I say you pray about it. Ask GOD for the strength to realize that you have so much life to live, and it isnt worth it to go on hurting yourself when you can just move on an make so many wonderful things happen in your lifetime. There have been some very hard times in my life when GOD was the very last one i tried to go to and found that it works better than anything. If you feel unpassionate about it then, guess what, ask for the passion, just force your sef and do it and you may be amazed at how much strength GOD gives you. I wish you the best.
once you realize its wrong and you need help then you are ready.
The fact that you asked this question shows this and you have infact gone a step forward from realising you need help to actually seeking for help.
WAY TO GO!
You are ready SO PLEASE CONTINUE THE WALK BY SEEKING A DOCTORS HELP.
You'll be fine.
see my question on alternatives for ideas, there are a lot. please if you wanna talk about it email me, i kno how you feel - need/want to stop and yet need/want to keep going. it's so difficult and confusing.
stay strong, stay safe.
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