Does anyone have any advice on what I can do to stop feeling like I don't do enough?
Like, next school year in addition to regular school I'm also taking a class at night school, piano lessons, voice lesson, choir, advanced choir, teaching, the school plays, show choir, and basketball but I feel like whenever I have a free minute I'm wasting my time. But at the same time it stresses me out that I'm doing all of this stuff but I know that if I don't I won't be happy.
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well i think it's safe to say that you do plenty of things and should learn to enjoy the time you have left to relax. That doesn't mean you have to sit on your butt all day in front of the tv or in bed..you could take up yoga or teach yourself how to knit...it'll give you something to do without all the added stress and still allow you time for relaxing
keep a diary
Sounds like you have your life scheduled. You need to schedule your free-time too. Keep to it as stringently as you do your other activities, and look upon this time as required refueling, exercise for your psyche.
Wasting time is a luxury to be enjoyed. If you can afford it, I highly recommend it. It beats working till you drop.
If you don't slow down and enjoy life, it will be over before you know it.
Sorry to be so direct but your problem is a dangerous obsession. You should be happy doing what you like the best you can and wasting time is fun, so enjoy that rare luxury when it comes.
Good is the enemy of perfect, and man truly can not be perfect - it's an illusion grown with modern life ideas - so you are stressing yourself dangerously. People suicide thinking they can and must be perfect and they obviously can not. You are a human not a do-o-matic robot!
Try to do your best and be happy with it, and choose whatever path you want but do not suicide please.
When i have your problem i start to be a good catholic, but is my life, so i do not pushing you.
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well i think it's safe to say that you do plenty of things and should learn to enjoy the time you have left to relax. That doesn't mean you have to sit on your butt all day in front of the tv or in bed..you could take up yoga or teach yourself how to knit...it'll give you something to do without all the added stress and still allow you time for relaxing
keep a diary
Sounds like you have your life scheduled. You need to schedule your free-time too. Keep to it as stringently as you do your other activities, and look upon this time as required refueling, exercise for your psyche.
Wasting time is a luxury to be enjoyed. If you can afford it, I highly recommend it. It beats working till you drop.
If you don't slow down and enjoy life, it will be over before you know it.
Sorry to be so direct but your problem is a dangerous obsession. You should be happy doing what you like the best you can and wasting time is fun, so enjoy that rare luxury when it comes.
Good is the enemy of perfect, and man truly can not be perfect - it's an illusion grown with modern life ideas - so you are stressing yourself dangerously. People suicide thinking they can and must be perfect and they obviously can not. You are a human not a do-o-matic robot!
Try to do your best and be happy with it, and choose whatever path you want but do not suicide please.
When i have your problem i start to be a good catholic, but is my life, so i do not pushing you.
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