I need lots of viewpoints and opinions on this??
My counselor thinks I have low self esteem because I didn't believe her when she said "You are such a blessing to work with" I said "but it's your job to say it!!"
Also other professors tell me after procrastinating "you are so compitent and have lots of potential I know you can do it!" Ok why say that when they know I have a habit of putting things off?
Answer:
You may be a great person, but you have bad "self talk."
I mean, when you hear a compliment, you tell yourself it can't be true. Or you rationalize a reason for them to have to say that. Why can't you just accept that you deserve the compliment?
You do lack self esteem. So do somethingf about it. Drown out the negative voices in your head that are telling you how bad you are, how poor you perform. You need to be like those running commercials where they keep running while the nay-sayers and negative naggers just fall away.
I am a bad procrastinator. I overcome that by starting any assignment IMMEDIATELY. If I don't I'll never get going. try that, it works.
what ever you believe that you're thats what you really are!
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Also other professors tell me after procrastinating "you are so compitent and have lots of potential I know you can do it!" Ok why say that when they know I have a habit of putting things off?
Answer:
You may be a great person, but you have bad "self talk."
I mean, when you hear a compliment, you tell yourself it can't be true. Or you rationalize a reason for them to have to say that. Why can't you just accept that you deserve the compliment?
You do lack self esteem. So do somethingf about it. Drown out the negative voices in your head that are telling you how bad you are, how poor you perform. You need to be like those running commercials where they keep running while the nay-sayers and negative naggers just fall away.
I am a bad procrastinator. I overcome that by starting any assignment IMMEDIATELY. If I don't I'll never get going. try that, it works.
what ever you believe that you're thats what you really are!
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