How can I stop feeling so needy to have a boyfriend?
Answer:
Rather than focusing one what's on the other side of the fence, take the time to get to know yourself better: your likes, dislikes. Hang out with your friends more often, and enjoy the single life. Really take the time to go out with your single friends and experience your local nightlife, chat up some hot guys, and enjoy the fact that you are not tied down and don't have any obligations to anyone else but yourself.
That special guy will find you when you least expect it, and when you are not looking so hard----I am proof of that.
Accept being single. Only way to bear the other object is to accept it. Everyone seeks something they do not possess, but are unconscious about the things that are already present to them. Learn to accept and appreciate then you will be fine. When a guy comes your way you will at least know you were desperate for one.
You can't because every man needs a woman and every woman needs a man. It's just nature. The hard part is finding someone you are really compatible with. I would never think about not having a woman because I just love women. Why do you think people who have been divorced from the worst marriages always find someone else? Don't become calloused against love because it's a great thing.
Learn to value YOURSELF! Even if you have/had a boyfriend, how do you know that they will be as needy as you are for them, for you? Be happy being single or in solitude. It helps you find you're own identity,whay you like in a guy and if you are REALLY ready to have a boyfriend and have a TRUE relationship, which means that more personal time is spent in the realtionship than you may actually like. But if you are experinced with being single, you'll know the reprecussions.
Perhaps you did not have much love form one of your family members that you feel the need to have a bf, to replace that love, you need to accept yourself, for who you are, love yourself, and think positive, you don't need a guy by your side to tell you how beautiful you are, you need confidence in yourself. Do things that make you happy, to replace the need of having a guy, by your side, go shopping, decorate your room, go out with your frieds to the movies, and to a cafe, or toy our favorite restaurant, read a book, things like that. :}Ciao*
Stop thinking about yourself and your needs and consider the needs of other people.
1. Bake cookies for your neighbor.
2. Take care of some little kids for a mother in need.
3. Tutor someone who needs help in school.
We need to get out of the mindset, "Me".
We all desire companionship, at some level. So there is nothing wrong with wanting a boyfriend, per se.
But we can't be too clingy and sometimes have to learn how to stand on our own two feet and learn how to like our own company.
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