Can someone tell me how "clicks" work...especially dealing with female's?

Why is it so hard to join.? MY husbands family is mostly females.for some reason they've never accepted me. Because they are somewhat racist I think it might be because I have olive skin, which boggles my mind because we are all hispanic but they think they are better because they are white skinned Anyway...they tried bullying me in the beginning but that didn't work..Why do they act like this? I swear I tried very hard at the beginning to befriend them and they've just been nasty to me...Can anyone explain the phsycology behind this.( The are females from ages ranging from 9-60...I have to add that I play with my toddler's and sometime the other kids join and some of them liked hanging out with us and when their mom's are around they stay away from me!! Why are they so controlling and mean? I don't get it!! Are they bitter? Insecure? It seems that once one of them makes the desicion to not accept someone everyone else follows.which I think is ridiculous but that's how the

Answer:
Don't try to impress these clowns, They sound like low life trailer trash, If they give you a hard time Saturday, Just tell your husband that your leaving and just go home, You married him now his whole family. You owe them nothing. Sauna life goes to quick to waste your time trying to get into a Click that believe me you don't want to be in, Well gotta go get another beer good luck.
Cliques are groups of people with similar interest and mindsets that are generally not open to new ideas and experiences.

You do not want to be in a clique. The term "clique" is generally referred to in a negative way. You want to have friends, but always willing to see the world outside that group's ideas.
My question to you is, why worry about those racists in the first place? If they want to be some clique, let them. You do NOT need them. Seriously, you're better than they are, so just blow them off.
Is it possible you could be letting this bother you and influence you as much as you think it is bothering them and influencing them?

If there is resentment on their part you will pick up the bad vibes and visa versa.

When you get there Saturday sit hem all down on the sofa, stand in front of them and let them know how you feel. Give them a piece of you're mind and give them a chance to open up about it instead of assuming so much.

The answers post by the user, for information only, FunQA.com does not guarantee the right.



More Questions and Answers:
  • If you had to walk a mile on your enemy's shoes to you think you could get along afterward?
  • Do comedians personalities mean that theyr[paradoxically]not good exemplars of "not taking life too seriously"
  • If there was never a such thing as reflection...?
  • Is calling a person a psycho offensive ? do people call other people a psycho to people who they do not like?
  • Discovery Training of Dallas?
  • What does the word Bliss mean to you?
  • When does being on the computer become compulsive?
  • How can I learn to be more impulsive?
  • Would you fire a guy who is always unhappy but dont harm anyone?