Fantasy question for women only?

I've always been curious why many women have had fantasies that include being raped and they get off on that fantasy. Of course, they would never actually want that to happen in real life - as it is a violent crime. Any of you ladies have a comment on this?

Answer:
I've had this fantasy, but would NEVER want it to happen in reality.

In the fantasy, it is generally about lust. Being so irresistible that the man (or men), cannot control him self, he has to do it. Rather you want to do it or not. Some people like to be forced to do things they don't want to. So for some people, the fantasy is about just that, being forced to have sex. Some people like humiliation, and the rape (in the fantasy of course) can be just that, it can be done publicly, out doors, in front of an audience. In the fantasy it is rarely like the real thing, and all the men are attractive, sexy, people you would normally want to have sex with. While in real life, attackers do not generally fall into that category

I satisfy my fantasy through role playing. Both online, and with my fiance. Its a fairly common fantasy, and many more women have it than would public admit it. The fantasy is not about violence, it is about sex, lust, power, or what ever sets the individual off.
What women have fantasy about being raped??

Maybe a little role playing with partner but to be raped?
Yes Rape is a VIOLENT crime and can ruin someone totally I have never heard any women say or play around with RAPE like that at all,
I've personally never had any type of fantasy where I have been raped. I have had nightmares that revolve around the situation and I must say that they are for me are not enjoyable.
It's actually very common. Perhaps it is nice to have a fantasy of a men who will just take control. Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to strong, confident men who can take control. It is ONLY a fantasy (or some women dream a rape situation) though. In reality, women do not want to be raped. there is also "play rape" which is sometimes practiced by couples who are into s&m. There is usually a safe word, though. The man pretends to rape his partner, though of course it is consensual.
i have had a fantasy about being abducted by this guy, its not rape because i know him and i went with him it wasnt forced upon me i wanted it
That may be a side effect/coping strategy of women who actually HAVE been raped or sexually molested. I can see a little role playing for fun - but people do all sorts of acting/role play that they wouldn't want to have actually happen in real life. You just do that kind of thing to make your s*x life new and keep the spark a live, not because you'd actually want it to happen.
Oops! I do not see why a man like me should not answer this question.

Sexuality is a good thing and anyone would fantasize about it. The problem with the world is that there is a corrupted version of good things right from the definition of life to 'simple things' like sexuality. Our aspirations for anything, including sexuality are likely to have been polluted by negative reports involving sex crimes.

The big problem with sexual crimes is that they pollute the innocence of the victim and her / his neighbours. Once you've heard a report involving sex crimes, it is very difficult to continue having an innocent and honest attitude towards sexuality. This sometimes makes the victims fear or abhore any suggestive information which reminds them of the beastly act, yet it is not the act of sex that is evil; it is the criminal who perpetrates the act of rape.

Issues relating to sexuality pierce right into a person's being and that's why sexual crimes and loose reports about sexuality easily degrade a person's sense of dignity.

I always wonder why laws are so unreasonable when it comes to serious issues such as rape. In my country, tearing up currency can earn you a life sentence. Destroying the innocence of a young girl can earn a rapist as little as 3 yrs in jail !!!!
Are you so bored you have nothing better to do than ask of women only this question.
Who are you?
How sad are you to ask this question.
I suggest you get a life and start living.
If you cannot do this, well crawl under a stone, because that is where questions like this you are asking belong.
In your dreams, not ours...
Being raped is a very VIOLENT CRIME but i think it's sick that people have them fantasies and i don't understand why they do? It makes me shiver and the sound or it. No offence to people that have them fantasies but i think that is really really wrong.

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