How would you describe how I feel?
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What you describe is what psychologists label as "Type A" personality. Type A's are seen as edgy but, the only reason they are edgy is because they have to be around Type B people who LIKE to wait, who LIKE to go slow, who LIKE to sit and basically vegetate. : ) What you are feeling, sir, is the extraordinary gift of true passion. There was a race horse called Sea Biscuit. It was a regular running horse until it went into what I call "Sea Biscuit" gear. That horse would look like it was running as fast as any horse could run and then all of a sudden it kicked into Sea Biscuit gear and zoomed ahead of all other horses, sorta like a superior being who was just humoring the other horses at their game until it was time to win. You're like that horse. And, you have a Sea Biscuit gear. When I had businesses, I hired only people like you who had that super power lurking inside of them. The trick is finding situations in which cutting loose with all you've got is recognized for the grace and genius that it is. Avoid at all costs situations in which Type B behaviors are recognized and rewarded, like the Navy. Few possess the real gusto. You do. So, adjust your life accordingly and race ahead of the pack like you are designed to do.
Shut off your computer, and get outside
ok i really dont know what to say but when u drink to put the pain down is bad and nad for ur body and it just makes ur condition worse. try calming down and appriciating the things u do have and forgetting the past and i think u feel like u dont have ebough of u want more.
This is something that you will need to deal with as it is life. You also need to deal with it without alcohol.
I know what you are talking about as I was a Navy Corpsman.
The hurry up and wait, and the staging for hours even days. It is maddening.
But you will have two problems if you continue to use alcohol to escape the issue rather than deal with it.
For the most part, people just don't give a damn and they want everyone else to do things for them. They want all responsibility to fall upon someone else. They do not want to be bothered to even do their own job that they are being paid for. IT SUCKS... But it is life.
What to do?
Accept only friends that are responsible people and have a good head on their shoulders.
This will be your escape and relief. The more decent people that you can get around you the better you will feel.
Another thing, "this one has helped me," "George Carlon"
He makes all of his stand up from real life jerk offs and morons and it really helps when you can laugh at it!
Hope this helps.
:O)
Jerry
You are joining the rest of the world. Most of us are low income. If you recieve benefits from the military enjoy it.Most of the veterans don't have an income period.
You are screwed to the best of my knowledge. If you find a cure for this ridiculousness then let me know. The only thing I know of that helps is to b**ch a lot about it to everyone that you see.
Yes, I feel exactly the same!
It's funny how people like us spend so much time hating people who worry about stupid things/ bad management etc, that we become those stupid people due to the time we spend obsessing/ stressing/ getting pissed off with ineptitude!
I am a good person. I am a perfectionist in many ways, so slackness in people/ companies/ drivers/ customer service...(etc, etc...etc!) really bugs me.
I also drink every night, (although recently I've tried to cut back to 3 times a week).
I don't feel i have pain to be eased as such, but I do feel the monotony of daily life sometimes and have had a bad 2 years (baby born with life threatening bowel condition, then loosing a baby to rare 3 month ectopic this March)...So I wonder why a good person like me has such misery when there are w@nkers out there who do nothing with their lives who moan about trivial things? I am not bitter, but it empounds the feeling that life can be unjust. I just try to get on with it..
This probably makes no sence and I have probably contradicted myself alot, but I think life is full of contradictions!!
(she says, making excuses!!)
I can only think that you're lack of vision for your future. You dont know what you really want, you dont know "where" to go.
You are a mediocre at the moment, you dont like it but at the same time you dont know how to solve it.
You are one of my contact; I see, you ask lots of questions, the variety are so widely spread. You ask almost abt anything.
Sure you say that you are always trying to better yourself;
But you can only make it better if you know what you are good at; otherwise how can you make it better?
Looking at the varieties of your questions, I doubt what you know about yourself; but looking at your answers I think I know at least what you can do. Thats why I say why dont you make better abt what you are good at.
Develop yourself from that point.
Youre still young, you're only 24, much younger than my children, so you have plenty of time to make a good and successfull life.
Whatever you can do and like doing it, think how to develop it to become your leverage.
Like the navy; if you are in it, dont look at the pains, look at the possibility of opportunity behind it. If you think it's none, then OUT!
But if you see a "light" beyond it, run for it, that was what I did when I was young being in such condition. And I still always try to look at the light beyond the unwanted condition.
Mind you, there are times which is "stagnant", when it comes, I am not thinking abt the pain of it bcs it's normal; just like the wind ..at about 2 - 3 pm. wind is dead, almost no breeze at all, but after that, its fine.
And I know some times there are storm, but it will die down .
Going to booze just showing your lack of self confidence, which you shouldn't have because you're are not stupid.
You and I hate our sister who is not the same like us, that's just like hitting your head to the wall. Dont hate it, one day she will be put in a such condition "to be like us!" Believe me.
You should look at one of my answer, where I gave real story about my father, maybe you can learn from there.
You want to run away from yourself but you cant and you dont want to have faith to anything,..so ....??
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