I'm a loser should I go ahead and commit suicide?
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the two family members you mentioned do give a darn about you, they might not know how to deal with you and express to you their love in a way you can understand(im not saying your thick or anything! your not, your a human being, we all make mistakes and are imperfect beings). They might only express their love in despair, shouting at you or calling you names trying to provoke a turnaround in you. Well done for being a virgin, this is promising! I felt i had to get laid to see what all the hype is about, i ended up getting with someone who wasn't right for me and we split up after 6 months, do you know what i learned? It's not about having sex but sharing your life with the one you love(not lust) 'lust is sex before marriage' You will find some one. There is always hope. Does having a degree make you a better person than anyone else, bladderdash!? I think not. You've probably had a hard life and alot to cope with but it's not about what happens in your life, it's how you deal/handle/cope with it.
Stop trying to escape your life because it wont work, believe me i tryed. You cannot hide from your problems, you need to be brave, turn around and face the difficulties in your life(one by one/step by step). This sounds daunting like there is no way out but believe me there is. Do you know what I would do, (after my experience) go to a doctor and offload your problems onto him/her. If you are contemplating suicide, what you are really doing is crying for help, doctors can help (they can point you in the right direction) You have to be brave and swallow your pride of saying 'I don't need one' because it sounds to me like you do.
I hope you can find some meaning in what i say, God Bless
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Nope, I think you need to go back to school and find something your interested in doing, and pick up a boyfriend while your at it, that's the perfect place to find and get what you need to better your life!! Don't give up, go to school and your life will change, I promise!!
No If I had to guess It would probably be even less fun if you were dead. Think on the bright side. You have no real obligations. You could really do a lot of cool stuff. If I were you I would at least try a change of scenery. I don't mean like move down the street. Aren't you curious what life is like in mexico, brazil, africa. Don't you want to know what it feels like to be lost in the woods in another country with nothing but a fire and some water and small animals that you have killed with a spear to eat. Ok so your life dreams may be a little different than mine but I say go for it whatever they are.
Do you pray? I give a damn about you. And it doesn't matter the quanitity of friends it matters the quality. There is someone in Japan that I bearly have talked to but I am learning japanese, mathematics, and fluent english which I hate english calls, but I will do it just for him so I will keep him from killing himself. Please let me talk with you on yahoo messenger or something don't just do it. There are other ways wait it out.
If you want to talk with someone I promise I would give a damn as long as you are being honest and you can e-mail me anytime you would like.
NO - you are not a loser and NO you should not commit suicide!! I am sure you will get a lot of advice on seeking help from professionals here which you should probably look in to. You are just at a low right now, you haven't quite figured out what direction you should take your life. Life is too precious to voluntarily end. Get involved with friends, or church or volunteer at an animal shelter. You matter in this crazy world we live in. A hug for you
No I don't think you should off yourself. You are better than that.
You aren't alone in your problems, and you are not a dog without the brains to solve them.
You are a human being. That makes you intelligent!.! Yep ...you're intelligent.
Now work out a plan to find someone to help you. No one is an island darlin. No one.
You can find ways to remove the obesity, find a superior job, and educate yourself in what you love to work at. It takes time.
Everything takes time. It took a long time gain all that extra weight; so it will take time to remove it. It has been a long time since you were in any form of schooling? Well it will be a long time to gain a college degree. You can do that.
Find out what makes you beautiful and polish it up. Boyfriends will come once you stop looking for them. (Honest it's really weird, but everyone I talk to about this agrees with me. Years ago I was always on the hunt for a girlfriend, couldn't find a one! I stopped looking, all of a sudden I had a plethora of choices. Go figure eh?)
Suicide is not an answer. It is I've been told a permanent solution to temporary problems. And I agree with that. You can fix what is wrong in your life now. You cannot fix death.
Find another woman who can help you. Forget the men, we don't know enough to help a woman who needs it in life, and relationships. We can help another man in those areas but not a woman. Go find a successful woman to help you.
In the meantime try to find a proffesional to keep you alive until a solution is found for you.
May God bless you in your search, take care of yourself.
Of course i don't think you should "off" yourself and neither should you. You have not listed anything that is not fixable. Number one thing you need to go see a doctor get on some anti-depressants. That first step is the hardest one to take, but I can tell you once you start to feel better about yourself from the inside than it makes it easier to fix the outside. I am looking at 50 in a few years and I just went to back to school to finally do what I always wanted to do... I'm losing weight, slowly but it is coming off. You just need to talk to someone if you have no one I am here for you... Don't give up i believe in my heart that everyone has someone out there waiting for them to find them and if you kill yourself than he will never have his soulmate...think about that before you think about anything else..please. I'm here for you if you need me...
I have been where you are. I do know how you feel.
I used to be almost 500lbs, and I was a virgin until I was 38 years old. I felt terrible and did a lot of emotional eatting to pacify myself.
I had to find out what was eatting me, before I killed myself. I had to do something about me. I had to learn how to love and accept me. When I started to do this, and project good positive vibes, then good things started happening and coming to me.
Today I am 43 years old, I work for a nonprofit counseling center. I am not a virgin any more but enjoy an active sex life with a guy who loves me at a nice 270lbs. I am an Organizer for a BBW motivational group on Meetup.com in my area.
We have so much fun just learning, encourageing, go out to nice places such as museums, concerts, parties, clubs, and such together. Mostly in groups of more then 2.
Because some men think that BBWs have low self-esteem and are easy target to take advantage of.
Start thinking better of yourself. You are a Queen, a princess, you are made in the image of God the father. He did not make JUNK. Start being up or getting up. Shake yourself. Take baby steps to improvement. You can go to school, look up scholarship programs, grants and such, even if you have to go one class at a time. See if there is a "Dress for Success" or an organization such as "Bottomless Closet," or other womens group in your area that helps one get on their feet and way to a career. These kind of organizations help you get the skills you need for a career, and they are usually free, on a scholarship program, or a sliding scale payment plan. So search the internet, for something in your area. An organization such as this helped me also toward my goals.
You can find free support groups in your area, just look on the internet. Check out the Meetup groups in your area such as
www.meetup.com. See if there is a support group or BBW group in your area. If there is not, then start one.
You can do better, You can be better.
I know. I wanted to die also at one time. But I had to get up, kick myself in the pants, and LIVE.
hey its your life, on your left hand, you can take your life or on your right hand, you can make your life worth something. it's all in your hands, you decide your fate, and ultimately your destiny. which will it be? life or death, its up to u.
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