How can I be louder and more outspoken when uncomfortable?
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start taking acting classes and involve your self in some kind of physical training like kick boxing. It's funny but it works; I personally play rugby and after practice each week i feel like I'm unstoppable add acting to the mix which helps find tune your speech, you get a great confidence boost.
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You don't want to be loud what you want is to be more assertive. Loud people tend to turn people off or end up annoying them. You want to gain more self confidence when you're in a situation that normally makes you uncomfortable.
This is how I helped my daughters learn to speak up in school and to be able to present their papers or other projects. Start with one really good friend, Write a pretend paper like you would have to present in school and present it in front of them.
Than get them to criquite it and give you feed back on what you could be doing better. Once you get comfortable with that Idea than move on to more friends and as you get more uncomfortable add some one that you don't really know well and keep doing it until you're comfortable, Once you can present a paper to other people and learn that they won't make fun of you and that they find your ideas interesting you will find it easier to be with people that you don't know and you won't find your self uncomfortable with groups that you don't know well. Good luck.
I believe a good thinker is always a quiet person. And its not a big deal.
Anyways, to be more social you dont need to be outspoken or better speaker. I have seen many people suffer just because they TALK ALOT! Its good to be to the point, rather than pointing everything comes in your way, for nothing.
"Actions speak louder than words"
i usually just turn off my brain and go and talk to people.
i kind of feel like my confidence is wasted because i've never reallly benefitted from it.
see i have days when i'm really hyper and i just go and talk to anyone/everyone and i guess people are attracted to me because i always seem happy and easy to talk to.
other times i go over board and people end up thinking i'm annoying.
but just make yourself approachable and the people will come to u. just smile at someone you dont know...
if you're in school try talking to the person sitting next to about the class...
if you're in a long line somewhere just say "wow this is taking forever" to someone near you... the simplest conversations can turn into a friendship.
like once i was washing my hands in the bathroom and this girl just starts talking to me about how i look older than i really am... so next time i saw her i just started talking and we've been friends ever since.
if you dont think about it, you're going to adjust easier... dont think "omgosh! i'm talking to people i dont know", just think "hey, let's see where this will go."
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