No father figure?

For many years, I have longed for a father figure. I was physically abused by my father when I was younger. Is it normal for me to dwell for a father figure?

Answer:
My heart goes out to you .it is so despicable when a man puts out the wrong signals. A loving father is huggable, understanding, not afraid to allow you to make a mistake but he appears anytime you fall down physically or mentally.

I am willing to do what ever it is necessary for my son or daughter .and if ever they felt I had abused them I would have myself locked up and never to be seen again.

Dwell on it as much as you need to .there is another Father who will sooth your sorrows...
of course not. my whole life i havent had a father but i've learned to deal.
yes it is. its human nature to crave that affection
It is. I have the same thing, I always do that.
nopes i couldnt imagine life without my dad hes the best sorry i kinda rubbing it in you just want the moment were u can say daddy can i have a car or love in that form
Yea,
Absolutely... A father figure is a natural part of human life. And when deprived of one your def. going to be longing for That figure when you are old enough to understand. Your father play a couple a key roles in your life, and with out him your kinda left with like a mom o dad. This could lead to a couple of different thing. One being that authority figure. Two a father is typically where a woman gets her taste in men. They often times feel secure by him, and look to other men who resemble and can mimic that feeling. This could go on for ever but with all that being said. It is completely Natural to long for care love and security you never had as a child.
I 'm 41yo.never had a relationship with my father ...and still wish I would of.I don't dwell on it but i do wonder how things might of been different
ya it's normal. Just make sure that your longing for a father doesn't make you rush into relationships too fast. Or else you will be stuck in a lot of bad relationships and get hurt worse. You could find a trusting man in your community who could mentor you or something.
You need to seek counseling to help you deal with the loss of your father. My father died when I was real young, and although my mom did a really great job by herself, you still look for that in a mate, and you don't want to seek out those types of traits. But if you deal with, instead of masking it, you'll be fine. Good Luck

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