I have a problem where I take everything seriously. If something small would happen between a friend I would stretch it out and think the worse of it. For example something so small.I use to live with 4 of my friends and we all chipped in for a wireless router ($40) and we all moved out and and next year I'm the only one living on my own so I figured I would just take the router to use since everyone is living at home and have one already. My friend called me and asked me if I needed it and I said yeah if you don't mind because I would like to keep it for my next place, but I am willing to pay you the $10 you chipped in, and she said oh no that's fine, I also offered again the next day but she still said no.than later on I found out she got upset about me keeping it.I don't get it! Little things like this always get the worst of me and I don't know how to not care about it anymore, I'm so fed up with little things like this with friend's it's crazy...what's wrong with me?
Answer:
Honey you really need to make sure that you are clear with your friends about being truthful. Explain the situation to them and then tell them that if they don't tell you the truth there is no reason they should be mad because they didn't even plead their argument.
Don't try to please your friends, if they really are your friends they should respect you. Assert and always express what you feel.
You are human and have feelings, that is something to be proud of. Tell her to say what she means and mean what she says. This is not your fault. : )
nope. it's not your fault. if your friend don't like you keep the router, she has to say it, not talk in your back.
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