If you don't like some of the?
What do you think?
I'd like to change how i treat certain people. I don't think i'm fair or kind to them.
They affect my mood by being annoying.
How do i change, and accept them for who they are?
I need help. I think I'm cruel, and being "ugly" towards them ( my little brother)mainly.
Answer:
Yeah, i act like that alot more than i should. I really need to start working on my attitude, especially since the people i'm being rude to don't really deserve it.
it is easier to develop a personality then to change it
if your personality is to be mean to others, changeing it will be hard, however it is not impossible, just start step by step
You have to change your belief that everyone has to be the way you think they should be. That will never happen, so it's not very smart to keep acting as though they will change just because you want them to. Also, you can decide to be a nicer person and stop saying mean things just because you feel like saying them. It's called self control.
It is definitely possible to change. One strategy you might try is to avoid taking things personally. When your brother or others are being annoying, try to remember that their behaviour is more about them than it is about you. If you can put yourself in their shoes and try and figure out why they are being so annoying (maybe they are lonely, or unhappy, or bored) you can look at them with sympathy and will be less likely to respond in a cruel or ugly manner. You should be commended for wanting to improve yourself. All the best.
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