The popular people and the unpopular.?

I myself, am a unpopular person. Not by force but by choice. The so many personalitys that are out today are just annoying and frustrating, that i can't relate to anyone. Am i a crank? No. I'm 13 and have always enjoyed studying people, and now im starting to realize... most people i meet just don't want to be friendly for the sake of being delightful... Rather to get somthing off you. And others are too inspired by someone they look upto and act exactly like them. Do you need to be somthing your not to be popular? Or maybe a blunty hounest cold bastard? I can't work it out.

Answer:
I am 30 and I had this same feeling all my life. I've given up on figuring out why, but I know for sure - to be popular most of the times you need to be something you are not. Unless you are a celebrity and you can behave whichever way you want, but then - they do it to to get the media, etc.
I have tried that in the past and given up. I really wanted to belong to some group when I was a teenager, but never been able to. Because I don't want to pretend.
I think if it doesn't bother you - don't try and be popular. Just be yourself and do things that will make you feel good about yourself, but not because others will feel good about you.
You have to make your own values and stick to them. Don't do things just because other do them. Ask yourself loads of questions befor making a decision or judjing someone.
Trust me - even if you are not "popular" you will eventually find people who like you just the way you are.
But you will have to pretend sometimes anyway - to get a decent job for example..
You are a very cynical person!
But... my policy in life is hate everyone on first site as it saves time later!
hehheh...
i`m not popular but i can live in a society...
you can do it being yourself...
don`t think your the best my find...
if you do that you will end up all alone...
when i was teenager i learned to get adapted without being someone else...
i enjoyed the good part...
the girls...
think about it...
peace!

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