a shy child learns to stand up and be counted and earns a few success and you easily buy your veneer of confidence until you are an arrogant ah. and people complain and you really don't care until one day. one day you are alone. and older. i think bordeline personality disorder is the result of enviroment and conditions, do you? would like to hear from a witness not a theorist but i will grately accept all input. i just don't trust ordinary health care professionals. most, i find, are extremely abstract, prefer abstract and like pills no meaningful, insightful allegories and such. i am one who appreciates technical writing but you cannot explain emotions and humanity that way. exceptions to everyting, a first time for everything but i have crossed paths with such a thing. tell me a story.
Answer:
..Confidence is extremely valuable and hard-won. If you earned confidence, you are way ahead of the game.
But arrogance goes too far. Thinking you are superior to others is a misread of reality. If you became an arrogant ah, as you say, quite clearly that's why one day you discovered you had no friends. Nobody likes an arrogant ah - impossible to relate to a person like that.
Confidence and humility is a better combination.
In my case, it's a matter of getting real and being in touch with what's real. I'm very confident, and it's real. I know, because I know how I earned it. But I also know that I'm far, far from being the smartest or most competent person, regardless of the area of expertise. I know my best shot is to stay humble and learn from others from moment to moment. Because I do this, I continue to grow and achieve more, feeding my confidence.
I recommend you consider this approach.
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