I dont understand love, how can we just love some one just like that? where does it come from?

Please if you have any thoughts on this, tell me what you think?

I love life because I love being alive and experiencing everything around me. I love myself because I guess I love everything that I am mentally, and I'm that close to myself that I am me... if that makes sense. But I love this guy and I can not stop loving this guy and I love him because I just love him, and I loved him before I found out how interesting he is and how good of a sight he is. To me love is a strong intense positive feeling towards something there for something we want to have. Is it there because we believe it is there or is it something that just comes naturally...With this guy it came like a flash I guess you could say love at first sight and I haven’t been able to let go of it since how ever ridiculous it has sounded at times...maybe I love him because deep down I just believe I do or maybe its just out of my control, but how could it be out of my control?

Answer:
THIS IS VERY INTERESTING TO ME BECAUSE WHEN I LOVE ---- I LOVE HARD! so to some degree i understand your concern but unlike me i am married and that feeling was for someone else. i asked the same question . where does this come from??? I AM LEARNING TO CONTROL IT AND HEY - some days are better than others.

it can be like a drug....INTOXICATING- becareful and be sure he doesnt belong to someone else.

dont cross the line between love and obsession!
Some scientists explain love as a chemical process similar to drug addictions, but it depends on the type of love you're talking about. Some love that has lasted for years and years (when all the "magic" has worn off) is sincerely the most honest and "true" type of love, because it is not dictated by hormones and neurotransmitters.
Dang, I know exactly how you feel!! I have the same thing!! I keep telling myself to stop and not think or feel anything towards him but then I see him and talk with him and that all goes out the window again. It's enough to drive a person mad!! I don't know how it happens but it sure does happen.
Love is a very complicated thing, to me it does not come instantly. It is deep, it is mature, it is something that grows, and that means time. It sounds like to me your are infatuated.

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