Why or what would make a person change all of a sudden, in the personality ?
What is happening here,and why then after ten years?
(He also told me that she does have some mental problems in her own family...can this really happen ,after you are all grown up,and years,and years later? and what could cause this to happen and or why?)
thanks!
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WOW! Sounds like it could be drugs to me. Meth can do that to a person. I have seen it and I have lived through it because my son's dad started to take meth. Whew! Did it change him. It drastically changes their personalities, thinking abilities, and their looks in a very short time.
maybe she resented his obligation to AF taking presidence over his obligations as a husband. Maybe she just had enough of being a military wife. maybe the change took place while he was gone, that she realized that life without him wasn't so bad (or was better). Maybe she just went nuts.
it could be a personality disorder, especially since problems run in the family. my theory, is it just lays dormant until something really traumatic happens and all the stress kicked it in action. Her husband leaving, and her probably worrying about him, might have done it. [[its just a theory]]
if she is an "ex" why does this matter now?
Was she in her late 20s? She could be schizophrenic. I don't know how long he was gone. If it was for a long time, there are a lot of reasons she might hate him.
But overnight?
The one thing I have seen that can change people in one night...
...is brain chemistry.
So yeah, she might be nuts.
Personalities dont change overnight. Either the person could have been thinking of this change for a while and acted on it, or more likely they have had a mental break. They could be borderline, bipolar or many other things. They could have had symptoms or late onset. Look for history of the family and consult a professional. My wife is currently handling this same scenario. Her cousin's wife who is a vegan that wouldnt even touch something with broth in it was a loving wife that was about to go on a vacation with her husband. She just bought a new dress and was all normal and happy then one day she just flipped out. left her husband and moved in with a hunter (she was a vegan!) in a shack in the middle of nowhere with no power and lost 30 pounds. She look ill and acts strange. Shes probably late onset bipolar from the way she was acting. Pull out a DSM4 and see what they may have.
personalities cant change all of a sudden. a behavior may. personalities are developed over time and overtime changes can occur. If it happened suddenly then people wouldn't be spending so much time in therapist offices(paying Money) trying week after week , month after month ,year after year. especially a feeling like hatred, that builds up over time.you are reporting your husbands version, his perceptions. Even a pancake has two sides.
this is the negative thinking, think positively to any situation it wont be the same
an emotional trama.
Maybe it's the absence of him being gone so long.Or maybe she simply fell out of love with him.Or she's just bipolar.
Mabey there was an inccident that caused her to change her POV in life.
maybe she's having unresolved problem that she kept deep inside that later she cannot longer hold it and change her impronto...
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