I want to be myself but im not sure who i really am?

it scares me sometimes

Answer:
"Yourself" isn't something you come packaged with. You have to MAKE yourself. I don't think people have "identities,' per se. You just need to decide what you want to be.
Not an uncommon problem. Don't worry about it. One's definition of themselves changes and evolves over time. Why label yourself. You are you. That is all.
Ok its good to know first how old u r, if ur young this is ok to feel like this. But if ur a 40 yr old, well thats a different story. Look just try to be what comes natural to u! No need to think about it! And what are u sooo scared about?? family/peer rejection? finding out that ur gay? Please elaborate more so we can help u! Take care.
you could try finding the real you. What do you stand for, morals, values and so on. Keep a journal of what you think, feel about yourself and see if they match up with who you think you are. Make the changes to become your true self. The choice is yours. Don't be scared learn to embrace you.

It sounds like you are letting your peers influence you. You are the only one who can stop it, by start making decisions for yourself and having your own opinions instead of going with the flow of what others think and feel, and if your peers don't like it then they are not true friends. You have to be true to yourself and to your beliefs. It's your choice.
use you undominant hand to draw pictures and words in connection to

childhood dreams, ultimate goals, things you love...

using the opposite hand to the one you right with helps to unlock the other side of your brain helping to help you think more clearly - balanced.

once you find who you are and you accept it then you will see what you must do.

Belief in your self - BE LIFE
You are yourself... whatever you do is you. It's simple.
Depending on how old you are,you might need to just be,be what you are now.Isn't that who you are? Sometimes many of us never understand who we are. But,if you are under 25 or so,relax,enjoy just being! That's good enough.
You are stardust and sunshine. The child of a thousand generations. One of a kind. What more do you need to know?
that's a very common feeling. mostly, nobody knows who they really are. if and or when one do finds out who one really is, one has to be careful not to go out of sanity by the existing confusion.

just move placidly amids the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. you will be fine.

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