I don't feel like fighting anymore. I'm too tired.?
I feel like a stranger to my family, ever day is just making it through in hopes that tomorrow will be different but it never is.
I feel like doing something completely different with my life. If I were younger, I'd probably join the army or something.
I've made so many bad mistakes in my life, it just doesn't seem worth trying anymore.
What can I do? I'm 49.divorced, no kids.
Answer:
Do you know what the definition of Insanity is?....
Doing the same thing everytime and expecting a different result!
Take a look at the patterns that your running in your life and in your mind and start to change them and you will change the results you get.
You've made mistakes.. you're so lucky because that's where you learn and grow. If you were perfect and never made a mistake then you'd have no reason to live.
You have the freedom to do ANYTHING you want NOW! Not if you were younger, NOW.
So what do you really want to do? If money wasn't an issue, if you could be, do and have anything and know that you couldn't fail, What would you be, do and have?
Start imagining what that life would be like and start working on it.
You only get to live one life...start living yours NOW.
Chi Chi x.
start a new life... the paperwork won't stop pilling up...
i've heard someone say before, no matter how messy your life can get, you can ALWAYS clean it up. You are not the first or last person to make a mistake. You are probably searching for purpose and meaning in your life. Don't give up on your life, its all you have. YOu have the power to change your life to be anything you've ever imagined.You can only change/help your life.
See a counselor.
Everyone feels like this at one point. Don't beat yourself up for things you've done in the past, just learn from your mistakes. You aren't married, and don't have kids, but do you have anything else keeping you planted in your current location. It's never too late, nor or you ever too old to change your life. Maybe a change in location would do you good, as a job change. Start looking online. Many employers helps with relocating, you could get a refreshing career in a new place. If you don't feel like relocating, try hunting for a new job if money is an issue, or at least a fun part time job. Volunteering can also be rewarding. Start by making a list of changes you want to make in your life or goals you want to accomplish. Break each one down into little steps, and slowly work on getting things done. It may take some time, but once you start, you will see how easy it can be to accomplish those changes in your life! Good Luck :)
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