How do I stop being scared of girls?
I go weeks without speaking to any females apart from my mother. It's really ridiculous. I think I'm gonna go crazy. I mean I think I am crazy.
I live in the middle of nowhere, and have barely any social contact with anyone apart from my parents, so when i do speak to people I am so desperate for them to like me and if they don't, I get really depressed. Especially girls - if girls reject me or ridicule me I feel like ****. If they smile at me I feel great, but I wish I didn't have to depend on what people think of me to feel good about myself.
Any advice?
Answer:
I suggest that you join a youth group at church or at an area community center and make a conscious effort to engage in conversations with the girls who are there.
You need to practice your social skills in order to become adept at them. And, you need to realize that you will be a little clumsy at first and will probably get rejected a few times.
That's just life. Try to think of your missteps as necessary steps toward competency.
unless you want to spend thousands of dollars for a psychiatrist i recommend the cheap way. sorry if this is a little harsh but it just takes guts.
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