I don't know please help?
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My guy does this too, and it's because when I'm asking him to do whatever it is, he's too busy judging whether or not it's worth his time and effort. 99% of the time he judges it as nowhere near as important as his stuff - motorbike, dogs, horses, cattle, etc - so my request gets put waaaaay down the list. Maybe you're doing this too. (Not judging you, just suggesting!) Make the stuff that's important to her, just as important to you, and you'll have no trouble remembering it, same as you don't forget to watch a game you've been wanting to see etc.
dont know why
but know what to do
just write it down
you also dont have to do everything for someone
write it on a sticky note or journal
you are not "listening" to her I find that when I am just half heartily listening to my partner I forget what he says also. I just think you are not really listening to what she says.
you could go to a psychologist who specializes in hypnosis. they maybe can fix your problem
WRITE IT DOWN.
Carry a note pad and write it down. Or if you want to improve your memory, read books on the subject such as Harry Lorraine's book. Beyond that, well, you don't need to go beyond that (unless you want to delve into unconscious motives such as passive aggressive expressions of annoyance...).
lay off the lefties...not good for short term memory.
Sometimes it's hard to focus when you really are in love and it's still fresh.
seeing as we've been going out for almost a YEAR maybe by NOW you'd learn to LISTEN to ME. instead of just doing what YOU want to do.
Maybe you just don't like being told what to do?
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