WHY???????? please...?
i need suggestions on what shes thinking and how she feels. also what can i say to her im not very good at talking about this type of thing.
we're not always inimate type thing and we do other things together and talk alot.
is it me? is she trying to tell me something? is it a habit, pain or emotional thing?
i know she loves me she calls me her girl, but im worried. what might be wrong?
suggestions or ideas please?
I wouldn't mind doing it, i just want to know why because i love her and care for her a lot. what is going through her mind when i kiss, etc with her? how does she feel about me? anything else?
Please help.
Answer:
that's funny, cuz i know someone who is just like that. first of all, she might act like this because she might have suffered in some previous times... someone might have taken advantage of her and she is just scared it might happen again... don't pressure her... if u really love her, you will respect her and move at the same speed as she wants u to go.. talking to her as u said, is the best thing because she might have something that prevents her to be more intimate with you..its nice that you care a lot, i pretty sure that she loves you and cares for you too. its nice that she has someone that loves her and cares for her... but my best advice is: talk to her... tell her every thing you said in your question... but remember the best relationships is when you respect her borders and no matter what, you would still love her...
just ask her...
?? i don't know why maybe you shuld talk it out with her??!!
The best thing to do is to ask her. If you love her and she feels the same, then you two should be able to talk about it.
Communication is the key to any relationship. If you can talk about everything than you can make it through anything.
I have also found that sometimes females do things that don't make sense. She doesn't always want you to understand or even be able to fix it. She just wants you to be there for her and hear her out.
Good luck.
ask her but becarfl how so you dont seem lke you are suspiciuos or somthing. it could be that shes afraid of somting like if shes a good kisser or... ya know... so just tell her if shes trying to tell you somthing dont be afrqaid to actually tell you
hello AB!
i hope the advice i give will help you sweetie.
from what i have read ..i feel that she has built a wall up
i think she has been used before and she is scared..she is trying to take things slow so she can see the signs ..like maybe she is waiting to see if you will do the same as the others. also to protect you from a major heart break..just because she calls you "her girl" doesnt mean she loves you
you also wrote that you are not good at talking..try writting her a letter..now when you do this..make sure that you will not be intrt rupted..relax maybe put some music on and let your emotions come forth and write everything that you feel and dont hold back dont 2nd guess it please..this must be done dear..you will feel a burden release from you..than..cook a beautiful meal..have candles etc. (if you cant cook order in )
when people get hurt from past relations..it is a hard step to take to start trusting.. the letter will give you a perfect opertunity to comunicate and learn how to express your feelings
i tell my daughter this...you do not need anyone else to make you unhappy you can do that..you need someone who will help you in every area of your life and make you feel special.
i just seen you wrote "you wouldnt mind doing it"
im not sure what you mean bythis..you can email me and let me know more about this situation..if you want to..i will try to help you dear. **blessings&huggies***
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