I need some help with jealousy...?
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Jealousy is evil doer. You don't have to oppress it but try learn how to deal with it. My way of doing it is to telling myself a better one is out there waiting for me in the near future when time is right or What's mean to be yours will be yours, and it's a waste of precious time to jealous that not mean to be yours never mind how you try make it temporary yours will still not be yours after that.
A jealous heart is never satisfied!
Read up on jealousy--check out websites, and the library.
It might not hurt to talk to a doctor or counselor about this--it does seem quite overboard.
im the same way i see a girl with the guy i have a crush on talking and i get so angry i dont know why exactly. but i think to myself why that girl hardly knows him nothing is going on between them. take deep breaths and when something like this happens just let it go past you dont let it worry you.
Just be jealous, I get jealous, think of doing horrible things to all those concerned, but I dont, so be jealous, just dont do anything cruel. Or stupid!!!
Jealousy.u can't help them.
all you can do is go find a boyfriend that tottaly loves you.or go travel around europe to find yourself.
you need some serious work on your self image. the only reason you feel that way is because you feel insufficient or inferior, the problem is 100% internal. check out some self image books from the library. good luck, I hope you find some satisfaction and peace in your life.
Jealousy is an ugly form of lack of self esteem and comes in two forms...one the giver and one the taker...let me explain..hopefully it will help you to know your heart.again
I have found that when someone is jealous it is because they are not being truthful with themselves or anyone else...you either cannot face the unwanted facts...or you are hiding the unwanted facts...I have found that the jealous party usually is cheating and does not want someone to tune into their actions, BUT on the other hand they want the person to be totally loyal to them...ONLY when we feel inadequite about who we are or what we feel we "own" do we become jealous...but sadly it is its own prison with harsh unbearable punishments.you can never own anyone else...ever...It is happening my sweet girl because it sounds like you are in love with him and have not found the courage to face it...or to tell him. you can help yourself by either going to him and telling him and hope he feels the same...or let it go and even if he doesnt...love yourself...get to know yourself...become firm in your foundation in your own soul and then you will never have to fight the ugly prison of jealousy again...ever... and oh yes...prayer always helps.hope it helps
you might just be insecure with your own relationship status that seeing people that might represent a "couple" makes you angry.
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