How to make my personality more extroverted?
I am not good in talking,so my personality is introverted,I hope to improve it,but I don't know what to do.Are there any tips for talking?
Could someone tell me how to make my personality more extroverted,and how to be a good talker?
Answer:
Join a group (sports, social, etc). Participating in something you have an interest in with others that do also will be a comfortable setting for you to chat and mingle.
Try a local recreation league, art class, volunteer (as a tutor?), church group, etc.
first of all think that every1 lovers..and try to c every1 smiling at u.SMILE BACK.
make frinds...not d 1s who r bookwormss.but bold and funny 1s...
PARTICIPATE...in local evente...
IMPROVE ur looks(ie if they r bad..)
TRAVEL..
start helping unknown people...
i guess this much wud do...
BEST OF LUCK...
Read books which tell stories of people who have succeeded. For example: if you are a female..read 'The prodigal daughter' by Jeffrey Archer. Read autobiographies of presidents like Bill Clinton. In this way you will have ideas that you would like to communicate.
The main reason why are not able to speak confidently is because of lack of ideas. Practice some good verses and read them aloud before a mirror. Consider yourself to be a 'Miss World ' or a top actor like 'Tom Hanks' when he gets an Oscar. Just have faith in yourself. Consider yourself a winner.
You will surely speak well if you think in this way..
My best wishes are with you!!
ABOVE ALL, LEARN DANCING.INDULGE IN GROUP ACTIVITIES LIKE TREKKING. JOIN COOKING CLASSES. JOIN A SOCIAL HELP GROUP.
I am not sure that not being able to 'chit-chat' in social situations is a personality problem. I would suspect that you have all kinds of thoughts and ideas inside you but just have trouble expressing them.
This might be because you lack the self-confidence to feel 'up to the mark' in social situations, or perhaps you just need additional skills and practice in social communication.
If you have someone (close friend, older sibling, etc.) who would role play with you in a variety of 'make-believe' social situations, this might help you boost your self-confidence. Also, when you are in a group of supportive people (i.e. family gathering), ask them to help you participate by making you the 'center of attention' in the group for a few minutes so you can get comfortable with the attention without feeling threatened. Use this few minutes to communicate something to them that is important to you..this helps you forget yourself and concentrate on what you want to get across.
There is nothing wrong with a conservative personality...we are the THINKERS of the world. Good luck.
Like most things in life, it comes with practice.
First you have to accept that you are sharing something of yourself when you communicate with others. You need to find a way to comfortably share. If you hit an off key do not give up try a different approach.
Then you have to understand that what you have to share is just as interesting as what is shared with you.
Then you need to know that when others gift you with what they have to share, it is only right that your return the gift.
I have always been an introvert, I have developed a way of teasing, non-sexual, silly kinda stuff, nothing anyone would takes seriously. Eventually my extrovert personality polished and I am now considered some what of a "ham". I now find ease in telling short little exagerated stories and take pleasure in the smiles they bring to others. I also love that they really do not know when a subject is a story or fact. Usually I now spin fact into an exagerated story and receive warm responses.
1.Broadly two types are personality exist in humanity which are certainly gifted by birth or by GOD what ever you say.
2 Extrovert human are capable to acheive the height in worldly affairs where as introvert human are capable to acheive the height in inner world ie life mystery.
3. So every human should explore their real personality and act as per above destiny and success will certainly come in their life. If any human is deviating from gifted property then it is bound to be failure.
4. In your case you can try to convert yourself in extrovert , and if you get success then it is ok,otherwise move towards in search of life mystery.
Here's an experiment for u:
think of something you really enjoy doing, and a time when you really enjoyed doing it. Now tell someone about it, in the normal way you would.
Now, imagine that same situation again, and this time step into the picture in your mind's eye and tell the story a second time, imaging the events are happening in real time TO you as you speak.
Notice the difference?
To be a good talker you have to physically engage in the story you're telling, using your hands and your face to tell the story, not just words.
The same basically holds true when it comes to being extrovert. Introvert is when you do everything internally, often using pictures to imagine what's happening, whereas extrovert is all about engaging in the physical world and using your body to act out what's happening.
The key to getting good at this is practice/repetition, and once you've learnt the secret, you can go have a more engaged life.
I have a different approach for you!!
Instead of focusing on what you can say to everyone -
Become a great listener!!
People LOVE to talk about what interests them!
Ask people open ended questions - sit back - and listen to what they have to say (and say, and say... )
They will hold the conversation. Because they are talking about something interesting - themselves!!
This will take all pressure off of you to come up with something clever - you won't need to.
Examples of open ended questions: What made you decide to...? What was the most interesting thing you did...?
This will lead you to great conversations. Then when you feel comfortable you can add your thoughts.
Good luck!!
here's the thing that most people like about introverts: when in a social setting an introvert is going to feel awkward in a silent situation so they will try to start a conversation and they do this by asking questions about the other person, coaxing them to talk about themselves. people like this because they feel as if the introvert is interested in what they have to say. So, get yourself a list of conversation starters and follow up questions and practice asking. "where are you from?" "did you like it there?" " do you like it here?" etc.
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Could someone tell me how to make my personality more extroverted,and how to be a good talker?
Answer:
Join a group (sports, social, etc). Participating in something you have an interest in with others that do also will be a comfortable setting for you to chat and mingle.
Try a local recreation league, art class, volunteer (as a tutor?), church group, etc.
first of all think that every1 lovers..and try to c every1 smiling at u.SMILE BACK.
make frinds...not d 1s who r bookwormss.but bold and funny 1s...
PARTICIPATE...in local evente...
IMPROVE ur looks(ie if they r bad..)
TRAVEL..
start helping unknown people...
i guess this much wud do...
BEST OF LUCK...
Read books which tell stories of people who have succeeded. For example: if you are a female..read 'The prodigal daughter' by Jeffrey Archer. Read autobiographies of presidents like Bill Clinton. In this way you will have ideas that you would like to communicate.
The main reason why are not able to speak confidently is because of lack of ideas. Practice some good verses and read them aloud before a mirror. Consider yourself to be a 'Miss World ' or a top actor like 'Tom Hanks' when he gets an Oscar. Just have faith in yourself. Consider yourself a winner.
You will surely speak well if you think in this way..
My best wishes are with you!!
ABOVE ALL, LEARN DANCING.INDULGE IN GROUP ACTIVITIES LIKE TREKKING. JOIN COOKING CLASSES. JOIN A SOCIAL HELP GROUP.
I am not sure that not being able to 'chit-chat' in social situations is a personality problem. I would suspect that you have all kinds of thoughts and ideas inside you but just have trouble expressing them.
This might be because you lack the self-confidence to feel 'up to the mark' in social situations, or perhaps you just need additional skills and practice in social communication.
If you have someone (close friend, older sibling, etc.) who would role play with you in a variety of 'make-believe' social situations, this might help you boost your self-confidence. Also, when you are in a group of supportive people (i.e. family gathering), ask them to help you participate by making you the 'center of attention' in the group for a few minutes so you can get comfortable with the attention without feeling threatened. Use this few minutes to communicate something to them that is important to you..this helps you forget yourself and concentrate on what you want to get across.
There is nothing wrong with a conservative personality...we are the THINKERS of the world. Good luck.
Like most things in life, it comes with practice.
First you have to accept that you are sharing something of yourself when you communicate with others. You need to find a way to comfortably share. If you hit an off key do not give up try a different approach.
Then you have to understand that what you have to share is just as interesting as what is shared with you.
Then you need to know that when others gift you with what they have to share, it is only right that your return the gift.
I have always been an introvert, I have developed a way of teasing, non-sexual, silly kinda stuff, nothing anyone would takes seriously. Eventually my extrovert personality polished and I am now considered some what of a "ham". I now find ease in telling short little exagerated stories and take pleasure in the smiles they bring to others. I also love that they really do not know when a subject is a story or fact. Usually I now spin fact into an exagerated story and receive warm responses.
1.Broadly two types are personality exist in humanity which are certainly gifted by birth or by GOD what ever you say.
2 Extrovert human are capable to acheive the height in worldly affairs where as introvert human are capable to acheive the height in inner world ie life mystery.
3. So every human should explore their real personality and act as per above destiny and success will certainly come in their life. If any human is deviating from gifted property then it is bound to be failure.
4. In your case you can try to convert yourself in extrovert , and if you get success then it is ok,otherwise move towards in search of life mystery.
Here's an experiment for u:
think of something you really enjoy doing, and a time when you really enjoyed doing it. Now tell someone about it, in the normal way you would.
Now, imagine that same situation again, and this time step into the picture in your mind's eye and tell the story a second time, imaging the events are happening in real time TO you as you speak.
Notice the difference?
To be a good talker you have to physically engage in the story you're telling, using your hands and your face to tell the story, not just words.
The same basically holds true when it comes to being extrovert. Introvert is when you do everything internally, often using pictures to imagine what's happening, whereas extrovert is all about engaging in the physical world and using your body to act out what's happening.
The key to getting good at this is practice/repetition, and once you've learnt the secret, you can go have a more engaged life.
I have a different approach for you!!
Instead of focusing on what you can say to everyone -
Become a great listener!!
People LOVE to talk about what interests them!
Ask people open ended questions - sit back - and listen to what they have to say (and say, and say... )
They will hold the conversation. Because they are talking about something interesting - themselves!!
This will take all pressure off of you to come up with something clever - you won't need to.
Examples of open ended questions: What made you decide to...? What was the most interesting thing you did...?
This will lead you to great conversations. Then when you feel comfortable you can add your thoughts.
Good luck!!
here's the thing that most people like about introverts: when in a social setting an introvert is going to feel awkward in a silent situation so they will try to start a conversation and they do this by asking questions about the other person, coaxing them to talk about themselves. people like this because they feel as if the introvert is interested in what they have to say. So, get yourself a list of conversation starters and follow up questions and practice asking. "where are you from?" "did you like it there?" " do you like it here?" etc.
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