How can I make myself cool?
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Be your own person. Dont' try too hard
by not givin a **** what people think about you,if they dont like you then they can kiss ur ***
by not giving a **** and doing your own thing WHILE being a nice person.
in other words.don't follow the crowd and you'll get noticed BUT if you're an *** about it everyone will hate you.
Make more friends. Start talking to more people.
They'll like you.
just be natural. be yourself. be nice to everyone, and be able to have interesting conversations. don't hold back. people are more likely to like you if you aren't faking it and you are just being you.
Asking people who spend time on FunQA.com for "cool" advice is like asking an albino for tanning tips.
it's because your either weird, ugly, or you can't dress.
those things are set from an early age, you have to accept it and move on like I did.
besides, once you graduate from high school, you won't see any of those people again, so who cares? focus on your studies, that's what I wish I had done.
be yourself
please yourself first
don't let others take advantage of you
find one or two nice friends first
don't kill yourself
o.k. fine i get 2 thumbs down....go kill yourself KILL YOURSELF NOW!!
be yourself, dont hide who you are, how i do it is i follow one golden rule, though it seems crude and mean: Treat others how they treat you. Be nice to those who are nice to you, even if they are losers to, and to those that are mean to you, be just as mean back, dont take their **** and fight back.
i cant with your social life but to make yourself cool(er)
this will help
step one : go to walmart and buy a fan.
step two: assemble the fan
step three: plug fan in
step four : TURN FAN ON
step five : STAND IN FRoNT of The F****** thing !
CLEAR ENOUGH !?!
Your not a loser! Being yourself is never being a loser. You just need to meet more ppl go out and do some thing out of the ordinary. If ppl look at you now and don't like you for some reason screw them! There is no reason to have friends who can't appreciate you for who you are.
First off ... you're not a loser. Clearly it's a matter of low self-esteem if that's how you refer to yourself. You are who you are and good on you for being that. If you try to change to fit into a social scene, then you're not being yourself.
Cool just is. It's not sucking up or trying to be anything you're not. When you try to put on a personna, that's when you get into trouble.
Well you need to watch yourself more closely in whatever you do, i mean the way you talk, the way you behave and stuff. I am not saying that you have to change yourself to make friends but if all the people you meet at the end hate you uhoh then you need to change something about yourself. See try to understand the other persons behavior when they are talking to you, see when their actions change when they start acting a bit indifferent, and then try to remember what caused that change in the person you were talking to, maybe something you said, etc etc. Also just for records dont try to push your thoughts on the people you talk with, everyone needs their own space, so if your talking with someone, dont push your thoughts on him/her, if you disagree with something say so, but dont push it too much, and try to make the other person agree with you. Hope this helps.
be ur self! nobodys "cool" unless they are in thr type of group thr tru friends DONT CHANGE FOR ANYONE!
Well, you don't say how old you are but let's assume you're in high school. Tough age. Bottom line is this: do you have any friends at all? The idea that everyone needs to like you is a pressure that no one needs. I had a teacher who told me that, "If you have five people in your life you can count on you are more than fortunate." He was right. I used to think that everyone had to like me and it hurt when they didn't. Know what? I don't care anymore. I act myself and, if people like me , hey, that's great. If they don't it's not my problem it's theirs. I won't be anyone's doormat just so they "hang" with me. So, be yourself and be thankful for the friends and family you have. Things have a way of taking care of themselves. In a few years you'll look at the people who passed you by and will be amazed at how you ever let them bother you. Believe me, it's their loss.
I'd rather have a couple really close friends rather than populer but not many close friends. You're gonna leave them after highschool anyways. Concentrate on your schoolwork because believe it or not, being smart when you're older is what is more socially accepted
or if you're smart already, then i suggest reading the Traveler's Gift, helped straighten people's lives
just try to find your own click, people that share your own interests. You would make just as many friends as popular people since popular people are usually only friends with other popular people
hope this helps at all.
First of all-change your inner dialect-calling yourself a loser creates a self fulfilling prophesy. And realize that people have their own individual motives (their own low self esteem, jealousy, est.) for acting hateful which is beyond your control. Then try to see yourself objectively-what is it about you that you do not like? That would be the place to begin any self improvement efforts. The most important person that you want the acceptance of is yourself. When you perceive yourself as cool-you will be.
hahahahahaahaah that was funny.
You are what you believe you are. When you start believing you are cool, then, so you shall be. When you believe it, you will see it. But since you are here in a public forum making a self-declaration that you are loser that's what you'll continue to be. Cool people don't announce to the world they're losers.
ok, by reading all the other answers im sure your disapointed, now let me help you!
1. try to dress nice, a place to get nice clothes that arnt TO expensive- abercrombie, they always have cute stuff, so try mini skirts mini shorts well if you have no style ask one of the workers there to help you pick out an outfit.
2. the cool crowd is different depending on schools, mostly 99% of the time they are preppy like me, so say thingss like hawt, smexii, tight, or compliment one of da popular people.
3.get your self noticed, maybe join the cheerleading team or any "cool" team. oh and wear lipgloss and keep hair nice and nails done preferably frenched nails
4. you can try to get a boyfrind who will introduce you to poeple but if your to ugly you can forget this step.
5. if people hate you confront them about it and ask them why but make sure you look nice when you do
6. you can ask someone cool to giv you a makeover i mean like poeple come up to me a lot and ask for one and we get to know each other and they become mor popular im always nice about it ;)
7. dnt let any of them know you go to FunQA.com lol
8. after takin some of these tips keep me updated cuz i hav plenty mor jus vote bst anser plz ♥
ohh yaa nadd when some1 is mean to u GET REVENGE! ;)
but still always remember it doznt ALWAYS matter what other poeple think && just be yourself
find friends who accept you for who you are
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