Sexual orientation issues.provoked by negligent parents?
Im 20 and ive gone out with both girls and guys.but i cant find any comfort in either...
And i think im probably kinda messed up in my head, cuz i tend to idealize some guys ive gone out with, and i tryed to imitate them, i barely have any guy friends. I dont consider myself "gay", cuz im not like them.(yeah im not in denyal), i do feel actraction to females, but after any sex or sex like activities, like a one-night stand i feel i was disrespectful and i feel guilty...only this time i went out with this girl, we were friends for a year, we had sex, and it felt right...
But it felt also right with some guys...
What is it..
Answer:
Hon, we are all messed up. Every damn one of us. You make the best of things and quit blaming others. Go seek therapy, get involved in an organization or two and find yourself. Remember, mom, the bad older sister, was raised by grandma and grandpa too. Maybe they were wiser with you.
you are confused, you are bi, you are gay, you are straight.
Whatever it is you feel, go with it and don't label it. Feelings are just that, what you feel. So if it feels right...go ahead, my man!
What happened? Did both your mom and dad touch you (since your parents define your sexuality)?
I dont know but you are probably one of those people that arent always into gender maybe you are just havent found that one, boy or girl maybe it felt right when you had sex with your friend because you guys knew eachother and were close i dont know what else to say my response doesnt really make sense but i hoped it helped
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If you don't want to be gay you're bi. You like both sexes. There's nothing wrong with that.
You aren't messed up in the head, your stuck in the flow. Take charge of your life figure yourself out then buil the 'new real' you.
Don't feel guilty, half those people on one night stands...well I won't say it because it may offend some people. Just take time and don't become a sex pig.
Your decisions can make you or break you. Think yourself over and build on what you come up with. luck
You are probably bisexual.
This may or may not answer your question, but i think it is true that your parents define your sexuality (to a certain extent). I have a gay guy friend, he never gets along with his father and his mother is a really nice woman. Since im really into PSychology i am always thinking about it. But i told him that one of the reasons why he is gay, may be becuase his father never showed him the encouragement/love/ and support that he needed from a male, so that part of his life is neglegent, so he is gay, searching for a male to feel that void.
i hope that kinda helps.
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