Explain REAL LOVE.?
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Lust is a wonderful beautiful, and oh so painfull thing to fall into. When you lust you can feel his/her touch just by thinking of it. You dream of that person, day and night, and all you want to do is feel that satisfaction, the urning, the passion. There is nothing like it, no place you would rather be! That desire is so easilly confused with love.
The difference is, love is not inside the bedroom~ real love has just a little to do with the lust you feel rite now. Love is achieved when you don't have to be laid up together to get that uphoria. When he/she doesn't have to touch you for weeks, yet you don't feel like something is wrong, you have that trust. Love is about companionship in all aspects of life~ finacial, career, goals, hopes and dreams for the future, freindship. Love is when you can totaly embarass yourself and that's OK with him/her. Love is when that person suports your dreams for life. Love is when they don't run away after a dispute, but they stay to work it out in a civilized way. Love is when instead of obsessing about faults, they obsess over your achievements. Love is when you can be eccepted as you are, and eccept that person as they are without trying to change them. Love is when a person cares enouph to say enouph is enouph, but I still love you. Love is when you don't have to agree on everything, and that's OK. Love is when you say I love you because you mean it, not because you want to keep that bedroom alive, or your afraid if you don't say it you'll loose that person. Love is when a person doesn't take out their past pain on you, or vise versa. Love is unconditional, yet respectful of the other person. Forgiveness is given, yet the person or you have enouph respect for the other NOT to behave or act in ways that you know would hurt them.and when you do and they tell you about it, you are sorry in your heart and it is forgiven rather then held over your head ( and the other way around).
Love is so many things to so many people, but lust is the same for us all.that's what you have described. That doesn't mean that you won't fall in love with this person.it just means that it's too soon to tell. Give it 6 months before the words are spoken (give it time to move past the "I have to have you rite here and now" phase)~ then all doubts are gone about wheather or not it is really real.
Love is not just feeling excited when you're being touched. It's more than that. You start to care and don't want to see them get hurt. Love is strange in that a parents love to a child is unconditional, but the love between two people may not be. Otherwise there wouldn't be so many divorcees out there. To love someone means to forgive and forget. In a time of hardship you're able to help each other get through it. These things may not happen until one has experience life in their own adult world.
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