How do you have fun?

how the heck do you have fun? i think i've actually forgot how to have fun. you know, the kind where you forget the $h!z the world has given you and just become high spirited and laugh and $h!z. i havent done anything like that in so long, i forget how it feels. all i do is imagine what it would have been like if i was that way when i was a kid, when i didnt worry about the world. when i still had my innocence and before i became this darker,depressed,emotionally dead person. i wish i could just have a little fun in my life...any ideas as to how i do that?

and please dont give me any cr@p or somethin pervy. if you do i'll report ur @$$

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well im 16. i remember when i turned about 13 i started feeling the way you do...like im emotionally dead. I think that it's partially hormonal but at your age you should really just try to make good, long lasting friendships.concentrate on that rather than the fact that you're not having fun. Then when you get to be my age you'll have a group of good friends and that'll make it a lot easier to have fun! Good Luck. 8)

Just do what you love, go on a trip, swim, hang with firneds, have a party, anytihng that u like

get with some friends and hang out.that is one of the funnest things you can do.hanging out will lead to all kinds of things[nothing gross]but I mean,going to the mall,seeing a movie,phone calls,things like that.I'm pretty sure you'll be having alot of fun after that.

i go scuba diving

underwater there are no cell phones, no news,m no mail and enough to distract you from all of your cares for an hour or so.

It is non competative, really feels like a weight is being lifted.

you should give it a try

Mescaline

If you are really bored in life maybe you should look for something that gives you a rush. Like skydiving.

Personally I like to play sports (just for fun), watch movies, and hang out with friends

I feel the same way that you do! You have to realize though you are a grown up and it is a rough world out there. I am coping myself. Make a list of things that you feel happy doing and do it. But, sometimes things we enjoyed in the past, we are not interested anymore. This is hard, I know. Do some soul-searching. I hope this helps.

With all the stress of family, kids, job, etc. the only time I seem to enjoy anymore is when I've dropped everyone off and I'm riding in my car alone. I sing my fool head off to every cheesy 80s song I can find. "Don't Stop Believin'" by Journey is a particular favorite. I am the superstar of my family car. On a good day, I'll get to go to the grocery store or some other exotic location by myself and I'll sing until I'm hoarse. You have to suck every morsel of joy out of life, even if it's a pathetic morsel.

yeah i know what you mean.. and certainly throwing a party or getting together with some more friends to have a haha isnt going to help either. infact its superficial if u rely only on these outlets to make you enjoy life again. i suggest getting aaway from these hype activities, n going back to something simple again like spending time building up your inner person via books n reflection of where u've been n where u really wan to go or what kind of person u wan to be. get in touch with one or just two people u're comfortable with and build something deeper with them in terms of a meaningful relationships (cld b same or opp sex). plan to do something stimulating that cld be educational or positive u havent tried out before, but just for a change in lifestyle, u need to do something different and bold. am at this stage like u too n doing my best too. i hv listed down 3 or 4 areas of my life which r v important to me at this point, and constantly asking myself what can i do to bring myself up to the next level in these areas. be specific and make sure your action plan is measureable so you can evaluate n make further adjustments to your goal. after 'enjoyg' myself too much and carelessly at times in the past, my life has been low in quality, n right now am trying to bring it back up again... one step at a time. even if its baby steps, hey its better than nothing.. hang in there pal.

Many people say to hang out with friends and just chill by going to see a movie or go to the beach. I however, find it easier to take time to myself and find a hobby that I can do. For example, painting or paper folding is a thing I do to relax and have fun. Yes I do like going out with friends, which I do a lot, but it is important for a person who is "darker, depressed, emotionally dead person" to start having fun with little things and work you way up. Start off by doing something simple, like grabbing a camera and going outside to take pictures of things that make you smile. Now don't let the sad or bad things discourage you because if they weren't there then the good things wouldn't be so good. So start off slow and have a friend or family member tag along. To many people and you may feel overwhelmed. I hope this advise really does help you. Good Luck

14? ...when you 'were a kid'?

If you want to have "a little fun" then don't see yourself as "darker, depressed, and emotionally dead".

My family and I were all together doing the worst possible thing ever - cleaning out my dead Grandmother's house, but half way through we stopped to eat. We sat on the floor of one of the rooms, had a picnic and started reminiscing about all our camping trips and the crazy trouble we all got into as kids. We had a lot of fun doing that despite the crap we were all going through with our emotions. I think this is the best way to have fun - remember with some friends or family what it was like the last time you had fun. Do it over some drinks and it should make for a good time, at least it did for my family and it helped us heal a little too.

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