Help with my depression?
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What you are experiencing right now is temporary. People come and go in your life. They are being immature right now. The truth is, you won't get to see those people again once you leave high school. You will meet new people. So don't get too emotional about it. Don't let what they say or do to ruin your purpose at school - it's not worth it.
I know what's it like to be bullied or get picked on at school. Because of this, I performed poorly during my final year at school. Looking back I really regretted it for being too emotional. If I had concentrate hard at school I could have landed into a better university and therefore have a better career.
Your school should have a school counselor - try speaking to him/her about your problems at school. Some times you have to stand up for yourself. Your parents are paying the school fees, and you don't have to put up with this.
Did you do anything to make them hate you?
give all you gots to the guys & become what you are really meant to be
Tricky-one thing which helps often is to call someone like a old Friend, who you have not heard from for a long time,and hear how she or he is doing just talk and talk lots off time this works,Something else which works really good is.Go do volunteers work someplace where needed people will love you big time.Example like getting grocery for a senior or at a church or any organization where things are done by volunteers.
Girls can be SOOOO catty! You have to accept that no matter what you do, people are going to be jealous and people are going to be mean (especially other girls).
All I can suggest it that you don't let THEM know they upset you. Stop with the negetive talk. If you tell yourself your weak then you act that way.
Tell them how you feel and appeal to their emotions. If you are uncomfortable saying it then write it in a letter.
well why do they hate you? and you have to correct that reason why they hate you. If there's nothing they hate about you why dont you just give them something to talk about. Bring yourself up and dont listen to what people say. Go up on all the guys and let all the girls be hating
Ok there is the start of it. U aren't happy with urself. U are not weak! Don't let them get u down! Make friends that aren't them, make a lot of cash, be successful and rub it in their face! What I'm saying is, the key thing is to be happy with urself. Do wat they say really matter? No! Ur right, confrontations are not right. Just turn the cold shoulder. They don't hate you, they're just scared of what you could be, which is a great person!
It is not your fault. Mostly, they are probably envious of you. You may have a better personality, be better looking and much more intelligent then they are. Every day look in the mirror and say : God loves me and made me perfect. I am an intelligent beautiful person.
Say it ten times each day. One day, in years to come, you will look back and find that people who treated you this badly turned out to be major losers in life. You can make it, don't give up.
Its not fun when you dont feel liked, but on the other hand think of this.. WOULD YOU REALLY WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH SUCH MEAN PEOPLE ANYWAY? Youre actually lucky that they hate you, because you can see what a waste of time they are before y ou even get to know them.. think of all the time you saved! now.. listen up. youre FINE.. and you dont have to kill yourself about the way OTHERS THINK OF YOU, be brave, be strong and focus on something special that you do or are, that no one else is!
If you really feel like killing yourself, know that is a chemical imbalance in your brain. This can be easily helped with some medications your Dr can give you, and you may very well need it. Tell your mom you need to go to Family services to see a counselor, or make an appointment with your family dr or clinic. Tell the DR.. I am feeling very depressed, and i feel like i might hurt myself. you can get immediate treatment and will be feeling better in a short time. Ask to consult with a counselor to discuss your feelings. Many states offer FREE COUNSELING SERVICES.. and you can go every week until you fee stable. Dont be scared, its a good thing that you recognize how you are feeling.. please say something to your parents or a trusted adult friend. Learn not to validate yourself as a person on how others THINK OF YOU.. do it on how you FEEL About yourself!
If you get some counseling, and start feeling better, you will feel more open to making some new friends and see that those mean people didnt mean anything in your life.
People are mean.. even when youre an adult. .just hold your head up high.. and get some support through your hard times, things will get better for you in time. Please ask for help immediately! you will get it and it will be ok!
who are all those girls?do you need them?can't you just
ignore them and start something different with different
people?you must have some male friends,stick with them,they
are much better as friends!
Please go and speak with your school counsellor and also maybe talk with your parents. It sounds like you are a victim of bullying and continual bullying is like being in a domestic violence situation it can be very traumatic and emmotionally draining and dangerous. Most schools have anti bullying policies so maybe even talk with a teacher
SG,
This is a difficult time when others aren't aware that you are a wonderful person. Peer relationships are fraught with insecurities etc. don't allow this to bring you down.
The difficulties you are going through now are instrumental in shaping who you become.
this sometimes happens to be but when i have a fight with my dad and with the girls hating u try to avoid them for me personally i dont care if people hate me (thats how u find how ur true friends) andd theres some other ways
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