Why do I want to hurt myself? Why do I invite danger? What is wrong with me?
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It's natural to have some masochistic tendencies, you have recognized yours that's one up on most people.
If you crave danger perhaps you are like me, kind of an adrenaline junkie and or bored.
Nothing it's natural
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Stop being so hard on yourself. I have said for years if you're not living on the edge you're taking up too much space.
I've read your questions and answers and it looks like you are just bored with the hum drum of everyday life and like so many others in this world do things both conscious and subconscious to liven things up a bit. I have purposely chosen lines of work that put myself in danger to keep boredom at bay. I once heard that Sweden was the safest country in the world and it also had the highest suicide rate. They were literally bored to death. Just like the suicide rate of military in combat is very low, almost Nil. Try skydiving. I had a blast doing it. It's true. people need thrill and danger to keep in mental balance look at games such as paintball and the sports as well as the X-treme fad going on now with skate boarding and the "Jackass" movies type stuff, it's a thrill to cheat death. I also said many years ago 20+ that life without pain is a dull adventure I still believe that today.
It could be hormonal or biochemical in nature. Go see a psychiatrist.
its the attitude the wallstreet machine wants to force feed u that consumes your sense of self worth so u buy more material things u reallly dont need
You have too much time being alone so get out and find something to do like helping other people and it really works wonders..
It could mean that you are going through something in your life that you cant handle and so by hurting yourself physically you feel it will make you feel better on the inside.
It could be also that you dont have any regard for your own life and feel you arent worth having good things and so you invite the bad because you think its more accepting than the good!!
You need to seriously think about what you are doing and what you get out of doing these things and if you still feel its okay to do this to yourself then you need to find a counsellor or psychologist to help you to move out of this destructive phase and focus on your life and its good bits.
If you realise why it is that you do it and when this started and because of what then you need to make some active changes in your life in terms of what you do and who you surround yourself with. Stick with positive people and do things that make you happy, try and remember happier times in your life and try to re create it in some way or form.
I wish you the best!!
It means you have very low self esteem. You need to love yourself, because you are worthy of being loved. Don't turn cold. The world can do that to you, but don't let it.
I think you must be young, because as we get older we realize just how little time we are given on this earth and we start being more careful because we don't want to leave this life. I think you care about life, but must be feeling reckless and maybe a little unhappy with yourself. I could not begin to figure out why since I don't know you and am unfamiliar with your situation. But I heard this somewhere and just loved it: "Imagine that life is a coin and you can spend it any way you like, but you only get to spend it once."
Take good care of yourself and go enjoy life. Find something you can be passionate about and then pursue it. Try lots of things for someday you will be old and unable to raise out of your chair.
Best wishes to you.
I would strongly suggest to get into some counseling. Look under the yellow pages for counselors in your area. They will help you with this.
You're not being very specific, but I'll say that it is possible to have some self-destructive desires and still value life. This may seem contradictory, but that's life - almost everyone has mixed feelings about something or other. Yours just happen to be about wide and important themes. By the way, just because it's possible you have both masochistic tendencies and a value of life, that doesn't mean you shouldn't get help.
well whats your asnwer? its your mind. why have me bring out my crystal plastic ball to imagine whats wrong with u.
first off please do not hurt yourself any selfinflicted harm is not normal and if you feel that you may actually do harm to yourself i would advise talking to your parents, friend or a psychiatrist or someone who is close to you. i will pray to God that you realize that you are loved by many and hurting yourself also hurts others. it is a selfish act. please seek help cause there may be a more serious problem at hand here.
oh... is it that time of the month again,excuse me.
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