Is crying pathetic to you?

I RARELY cry unless something has dealt a serious blow to me. but I always suppress my negative emotions [grief, sadness, anguish.]

I hate it when I cry. It makes me feel weak and pathetic, so IS crying pathetic?

Answer:
I do not think that crying is pathetic.
I think that you are stronger for allowing yourself to cry.

Did you know that crying is a natural response to pain. Our bodies are made that way because crying (as well as laughing) causes the brain to release endorphins, a chemical which is the body's natural form of morphine.

When you feel like crying, do it. And do not think negatively about yourself for doing so. It is normal and natural for people to cry.

The only alternative is to supress the pain, which could lead to depression. Don't let anyone tell you to supress your emotions. They are a gift from God to help us feel better when we're hurting.

God bless you.
theres nothing wrong with crying. its actually healthy.
it's normal
I dont think so..I think its cathartic...cleansing.
you are weak and pathetic. do you have any friends at all.
No, I think letting out your emotions is healthy,
no if u really need 2 cry thats not pathetic its better not 2 hold it in until u explode than you`ll look weird
No, not at all, crying is natural and healthy. It is relieving on many levels
I personally hate crying myself, but not because it's pathetic. It just makes me feel vulnerable, and that's really difficult for me to deal with. I'm sure it's not healthy to be like that, and I'm trying to get past it. Hope you can too!
I feel the exact same way as you i see crying as a sign of weakness and feel worse after doing it
not at all, crying is an emotion and sometimes you feel better after a good cry
dude wats so bad about u crying it feels good when u cry
No, crying is not pathetic.
It can become quite annoying, though, if someone uses crying to manipulate and get their own way..especially an adult.
No crying is not pathetic.

Unless you are crying to get your way.

If it is a genuine cry, like say when you are extremely sad or when you are just emotionally hurt, then no crying is not pathetic at all. It is COMPLETELY normal.


Show me a person who never cries and I'll show you a person with detached emotions.
Accually if u suppress your self you show your strong but if u let go u show u r stronger.
Cying is not pathetic in the least. its one of the best ways to relieve youself from all of the troubles in your life. I usually only cry during funeral services, but I have cried other times than that. I find that i feel better afterwards too. By the way this is all coming from a 16 yr old kid, so I'm not just B.S.ing you. Take care.

-Dave
God doesn't think crying is pathetic...otherwise he wouldn't have given us tears. It's normal...it's a release...and it's a way to let your emotions out. So go ahead and cry when you need to...it's so much better than bottling everything up inside you.
Crying is healing to me and certainly does not make anyone look weak or pathetic.
It shows you are a kind,caring person with a big heart.One who cares for their fellow man and those they care about and are not afraid to show their emotions.
I can't understand why you feel this way.Never be afraid to have a good cry.
its perfectly normal to cry but the reason why people dont like to cry because you feel like your weaker and your not strong and brave and you want to show people that you are brave and you dont let anything get to you and you dont want to show your emotions. you just need to realize that its normal to let your emotions go but sometimes you need to control it.

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