How do you respond to people when they say to you that your trying to be someone your not? i get really angry?
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just nod and smile at them knowingly!
possibley agree and be like "i know it's great isnt it:)"
this really winds people up as they think you refuse to acknowledge what they said.
i do it all the time :D
people have done it to me before when ive told them theyre being something their not and it really hacked me off so i know for a fact it works lol.
Tell them to ' before you try figure me out,sort yourself out first.' 'as its clear you have no idea what you are on about' and smile.That should get them thinking,good luck. When you act confident in who you are it will get on their nerves!
i think u should answer the person.."izit, u don't like or u jealouse" when u talk must smile ...and make the person feel angry..heh
Depending on how important these people are to you, answer them or ignore them. You have a right to explore different elements of your personality. The most important thing is that you are honest, true to yourself and do not hurt others. We all go through stages of trying to be different. This is a normal process for human beings. It is a journey of discovery to find oneself. I personally am still on that journey.
To be someone you're not is a little bit vague. To be more specific you can have an idol you admire and want to achieve particular points regardless of your ability to make it or not. Or just want to act similar way as the idol performs because it is close to your attitude. Or you just follow yours idol path(career, success) -- these are positive fragments of being stated as someone you're not. On the other hand, there are negative bits of being someone you're not and it is disguise. Disguise is something you want the others to be hidden from. You want to prevent them from seeing your acts you've done deliberately because you don't have clear mind and you want to reach your desired point intentionally no matter what victims would it capture. And it is not nice. I'd get angry with both examples but the anger would be applied on myself not the others because I was not able to be myself to work out as I do usually and that I have just copied someone's pattern to make it(it's okay to follow someone's way but untill a certain level - not to harm them.).
simplt ignore them,
I will respond to them that don't use your idea to judge other people. May be themselves always do that as trying to be someone eles that they are not and judge that you were the same. Don't give a dam about these people. They don't know anything and act like they do.
Try to ignor it. Be good be happy be your self be a positive thinker
It doesn't happen often to me, so I don't have anything clever to respond to them with.
I have said "Do you really think so.who?" As well as, "I know, thanks for noticing".
What a b*tch, eh?
BE YOURSELF HOW CAN U GO WRONG
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