Work with a *****!!?
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Exactly, bite your lip!
I've worked with people similar to this; when they weren't tyring to cold shoulder me, they were writing to the boss to complain about me. The answer is not to engage with their nastiness. Each time you try to engage you're lowering yourself.
You have to think that work is like this; you get thrown in with anyone, there is no reason why you should get on with who you work with and if you do, consider yourself lucky! Despite all the HR law in the universe, in my experience workplaces are peppered with dysfunctional people whose sole purpose in life seems to be to bring their dysfunctionality to the world's attention. A few rules; don't engage in gossip it may well come back to bite you in the backside. If someone complains about a colleague, you simply say that they've never seemed that way with you. Don't share your thoughts with anyone just to vent. We are - still in this world - free to think what we like. Look to your friends to support you and build you up outside work because chances are you won't get that support in work.
Lastly, you're gonna have a baby shortly. A better way to put things in perspective I could not think of. Remember your home is your home and leave work at work when you walk out the door in the evening.
I wish you all the best with the baby.
Ask her what she is going to do for a face when King Kong wants his butt back. THat will shut her up.
some people will never be able to get along and you cant change that.
Sorry
Just bite your lip cause it wont be long before your due to leave on meternity anyway.
Not everyone in life will always like you. Just get on with your work and let her do whatever she wants. If she's not being actively abusive to you then where's the problem?
Hey, just be glad you are employed! I have been looking for a job for three months.
She is Jealous...trust me on this..
Talk about your pregnency to someone else in front of her or your Maternity leave and you will figure the entire grump out..
Good Luck new Mommy
Does she have children of her own?
Maybe she can't have children so seeing you brings us bad feelings for her.
Or even if she has children, maybe she tried for another one, but was not fertile enough, partner didn't want one, etc... It could be lots of things.
Either that, or she just doesn't like you, in which case you should make special efforts to talk to her and treat her like she is your friend. Make tea for her, confide in her, etc. If you talk and act towards someone as if you were good friends, the other person tends to want to live up to that.
i think she's jealous of you
just treat her the same way
dont upset yourself cos you'll upset your baby
think happy
and make your baby smile
I'd confront her and ask what her problem is. Some people need to face reality occasionally. Nobody deserves to be treated unfairly especially if you feel you haven't done anything wrong. Maybe you could ask other colleagues what her problem is.
Just dont worry!!
Is she worth it? Is it worth stressing about especially when your pregnant!! Just count to ten and breath everytime she winds you up. Leave her to get on with it, is she wants to be a moody so and so let her get on with it! She's not your friend! Dont worry, be happy! Don't be bothered by it, i work with loads of Sh*t heads and thats how i get on with it! I couldn't care less about them, if they wanna waste their day/lives being in a strop i'm not gonna let that effect me! Its much easier and less hard work just to be happy!
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Congrats and good luck with baby!!
Try not to let this person make her bad attitude your problem. Just do your job and be polite to her .. you are having a baby - that is wonderful - she is probably just jealous of you.
The grumpy moody cow next to you, probably got out of the wrong side of the bed, or is jealous that you are pregnant, so just totally ignore her and when she asks you what is wrong just say "Nothing" and carry on with work, show her that you are not bothered. She will come round sooner or later.
Years ago I went through some traumatic events that led to a pregnancy and, later, a miscarrige. Personally, I've found it very hard to be around or talk to people who are pregnant. I find my mind drifts back to things I blame myself for and don't really care to remember.
I know it's been misunderstood by a co-worker of mine before. It's just something I really can't explain to them though, for many reasons, so I let them think what they will.
Maybe there's something like this going on with this woman. It's hard to say. Or maybe she has had a lot of work to get done.
My advice would be to stay pleasant with her and focus on your work.
Just have to accept, that she'll never change. Most people are like her.
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