Suicide?
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Talk to your parents they my understand more than you give them credit for...maybe a grief councilor would help.
First off, it will be ok.
These feelings are normal. But you mustn't end your own life because you see no greater outcome. Life changes and people move on. Theonly one who can decide to NOT move on is you. I don't say that to be mean, I say it to be truthful.
And the really really beautiful thing about what you have gone through (although it has been really bad) is that you can learn from it and not take people for granted. You can decide to have the courage to tell people you love them more. And you can tell others to be more thankful for what they have.
I don't mean this as thought you haven't done those things. I mean it as in you could possibly change your life to include those things even more.
Hope that helps!
For starters you HAVE to talk to your parents then seek some specialist advice...
dont kill yourself that is the worst thing that could happen
YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS...BELIEVE ME THEY WILL GET YOU THE HELP YOU NEED.
you have the right to morn. just be sure to go on with your life and don't live in the past. if you die youl always be in the past, someone Else's. you have a future
They wont think your crazy. your human and your not expected to be perfect. When someone close to you dies it natural to want help or want out ( to die). But hang in there, it will get better with time. Do not act in haste and kill yourself. Dont act miserable just because you are afraid of what your parents will think. They will b totally cool bout it. Parents have feelings and are human too, and may have been through something similar. They aren't that weird ya know.
I'm sad for you loss but don't make it worse by thinking about offing yourself. That's totally stupid beyond belief. Besides, what if you don't see him or anything in the next world? Wouldn't that have made your death a total waste? (besides all the other things great about life)
don't commite suicide. You should go talk to someone about this. I know how hard it is. I lost and family member in suicide. You'll be causing a lot of pain toward your family trust me
Think how you feel, would you really want others you left behind to feel that way? Of course not. Don't be afraid to tell someone, they will help you to sort out your feelings. It is okay to love and miss your friend.
You can call a suicide hot line and your parents won't even know. But you might want to tell them they will want to help you get help.
It's perfectly normal to have the feelings that you are going through. It is never okay to commit suicide... and if one takes their own lives it is a cardinal sin.. one will never get to see their loved ones after one commits such an awful sin. Death is imminent but in God's time. Life is a gift from God and if you take someone's life or your own, it is buying you a ticket to hell.. trust me on this. I would strongly suggest speaking to your parents, get the help.. if you talk it out with them you can overcome what you're feeling and move on. Please don't do anything crazy.. and choose life instead.
You no maybe it is best you didn't no him... It could of been much harder if you really knew him... Don't think about killing yourself!! You will fing a wonder guy!! Do you really think that you two where going to get married? Think about it some more
-Good luck
DON'T DO IT YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG EVEN THOUGH IT'S EXTREMELY HARD TO DO SO. IT'S GOING TO TAKE TIME TO HEAL BUT ONE DAY YOU WILL. IMAGINE IF U DID COMMITT SUICIDE YOUR FRINDS WILL FEEL EXACTLY THE WAY YOU DO NOW. HE'S PROBABLY YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL. TAKE MOMENTS AND REFLECT UPON THEM. COMITTING SUICIDE IS NOT WORTH IT.
This is probably a very hard time for you. Dont commit suicide because it will hurt others. Remember all the good time you had with him and dont let this ruin your life. You will meet other great boys in your life and eventually get married. Always remember him and if you want pray to him every night. =)
Suicide is not worth it. Death doesn't solve anything. Who knows if there is another time to see him. I don't wanna dis religion, but one just can't be sure. Any, I tell you, if I was him, I would want you to keep living. You're here, why not? He would be touched by your love and happy to see you keep moving. Be strong. He's with you in spirit.
richelle, you know you have a problem and you know you need help. if you can't go to your parents, go to his parents and have them contact your parents or a therapist for you. maybe you should tell his parents how you feel. i'm sure they feel alone right now and that would be nice to hear. then you can talk of the good times. i'm sorry for your loss. get help like you need, suicide is not the answer for you.
this number may help you get started:
1-800-273-TALK (8255) it's a suicide prevention talk line, your parents don't even know you call them. do it now and don't wait. let me know how things work out.
You have the answer already. Yes, a counsellor/therapist is the way to go - tell your parents, they would rather you did that than lose you. If they freak out, they will get over it - if they don't then is there other family that you could then go to ? Good luck and don't do it ! {{{{{ Hug }}}}}
Please dont do anything rash, you are not crazy, and you have a right to mourn over your friend. You need to see this as a learning experience. You never know when it is the last time with someone, so make the time you do have together great. You are a great person, so dont dwell on the past. I know you miss him, and you wish you could see him again. But he wouldnt want you to cut your life short on account of him. Youll see him again in due time. just keep your chin up, and dont be afraid to talk to your parents. they wont think you are crazy. if you ever need to talk, my email is jlpow13@hotmail.com. i hope this helps, just dont be afraid or think you are alone.
Please don't kill yourself. If you won't do it for yourself do it for your family and friends. Do you want them to feel like you do. Tell them how you feel and you can work on your feelings with them. They will help you through it. There are so many people that care about you and don't want to lose you. You still have a life to live. Also, think about your friend. He wouldn't want you to kill yourself. Pray to God and you and your family will work together toward a happy fulfilling life.
Im so sorry i kind of had the same situation now i don't know your parents but i still think it might help to talk to themm if your depressed and thinking of committing sucide u need to see someone and quick be careful who u tell though some people lock u up in a place but i would definetly talk to someone fast and let all that energy out trust me u will lose friends and family if u keep it in that is really hard going through u need to talk to someone don't kill yourselve u need to do your part in the world maybe when u get older u can help kids not commite suicide by starting a program or something think of happy things and definetly talk to someone i know i don't know u but i care about your happiness
It is so natural to grieve over the loss of someone special.
You however are very special in God's eyes, it is not His plan for you to harm yourself.
You are very wise to consider getting help. Undoubtedly your family has noticed you are not your normal self.
Share with them what your are feeling, I hope they are kind, if so I believe they will understand your trauma of loss of a first love.
We go to counselors to become healthy, so go for it and good luck.
u should talk with your parents i dont think they wound actually think that your psycho or something they would understand and i know how it fells to missing someone so much u want to see that person but u cant because you know there gone forever my father die 4 year ago i miss him so much and every time i see a girl with there dad i break down and cry it hurts so u should talk with your parents
No one can tell you how long you're supposed to grieve. You definitely need to see a therapist. If you don't want to involve your parents just yet, why not go see the school nurse or counselor? They can tell you where to go from there, and maybe they'll call approach your parents with it and everyone can help?
Suicide is definitely not a solution.
I'm so sorry for you're loss. I knew someone that was like my father cuz I never really had a dad. When she died I was so miserble. Then I thought, "I gotta move on with my life." So i kept doing things to cheer me up, like listen to music, go see my friends, play games. And I'm over it. But there is always a little piece that never heals.
First off if you die you won't be seeing him, cause when your dead you are dead. Be grateful for the life you have to live, many people fall into depression because they spend to much time and energy dwelling on something they have absolutely no control over. Depression is a horrible thing and many people would rather die than live with it everyday of their lives. This was probably the case with your friend. You don't want to go down that road. Go out and do things with people who are still living, and enjoy life. Don't let depression rule you like it did to your friend. It sneaks up on you until it finally overwhelms you and rules your life. From someone who knows, by the way I have been to many therapists and they will tell you exactly what I have just told you. Save your parents some money and grief. Take my advice. : )
Losing a friend is very hard. Believe me, I know. There are many struggles that you are going to have to face in life that are going to be even stronger than that. Put yourself in his position...pretend that you're trading places with him. Would you want him to commit suicide over you??Why? Think that one day you will have a family of your own but you won't get to raise a son or a daughter if you are gone. Don't you want to know what life would be like. When someone is gone, that means that their job on Earth is done. God put everyone on this Earth to do a job and when they are finish, their work is done. He was probably a very good person. I would advise you to get help because you do need help getting through this. You can't do it all alone. I may not know you but remember this... I do have love for you and I know that many people do. You have things coming for you in life and you don't want to miss out on it just because a person has done well and went to a better place. He's probably looking down on you...you never know, but know this...God knows your heart and your true feelings. Just learn from your past that's all about life. Life is a like a game...one bad move and the game is over. Much love and I'll pray 4 U!! Get help girly girl girl... I know it's hard but try not to stress okay.
doesnt your problem sound stupid. crying everyday, is that somehow going to bring him back. theres 3.5 billion men on the planet and your crying and moaning over 1 guy. well arent you a picky girl. well you can continue to cry for the next 20 years. wow, just how much time does that add up to. well anyways, how about 40 years.
just tell em
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