How do i get confidence?
i am 15 years old and i have a problem with my confidence, i don't know how to feel good about myself. i truly believe that nothing on my body looks good. i never believe anyone when they tell me i look good. what can i do to bring up my confidence? how do i believe the people telling me i look good?
Answer:
Well, all i can say is that all of this is in ur mind. I used to think the same way about me, but then i realized that I was wrong. Everytime u look in the mirror, give yourself a compliment.
If everytime you look at yourself in da mirror and u tell yourself " Im so ugly, or im so fat, or oh look at that thing in ma face" then u are sending bad energy, and people are going to look at you the way you are thinking. All im saying is that you shouldnt think things that are not good for you, try to think things that are good for you so people see u the way they should.
U should see a movie/documentary called "THE SECRET" I think it will really help you. I think the webpage is www.thesecret.tv
im not sure
try to look good!
do something worthwhile in life then you will BE good not just look good
u can always work out, build some self esteem
Open your mind about yourself, and tell yourself, "I know who I am and there's nothing anyone can do to change me" It helped me.
Well first I would talk to your mom or dad about this! You should always listen to your parents! But you should always keep telling yourself I can do it! Never listen to someone when they say something mean to you !
It's something you don't gain overnight. It took me a long time to be confident. I still struggle with it sometimes. You just have to force yourself to try new things. If you think confidently then you will be confident. Stand straight, head up, and smile. The rest will come eventually. You are at a very tough age. Things will get better I promise. Just don't focus on it too much. Worry about your grades for now. :) I wish somebody had told me that when I was 15.
There is a book out called the Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren and it explains why YOU are here on earth. I think everyone should read it. I am in my 60's and as a girl I did not have any confidence but this book has been such a good thing for me even at this age, that I have bought it for several young people. If you cannot afford to buy it see if it is on line so you can read it or check it out at the library it is wonderful! Good luck
Take walks or do some kind of physical activity believe it or not it really does help your self esteem. Try to make contributions to your community and do good in school or go back to school. When you are doing good things you will feel good about yourself. Feeling good about yourself should not be entirely based on what you look like either because you can be a beautiful person that is empty on the inside. I have seen it so many times people that spend all their time developing their beauty that they forget about their brain.
First...you don't GET confidence, you HAVE confidence.
Second..You MUST love yourself before anyone else will.
REMEMBER: God made you. You are special, unique, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 - I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. Psalm 139:13-15).
Your body is going thru its growth process. What looks 'weird' or 'out of place' now, will be as beautiful as you were designed to be.
Just keep repeating that passage of scripture above and believe it to be true (because it is and you are), and you'll look back on these awkward years of your life and laugh when you think of how silly this all was.
GOD BLESS YOU!
hi dear
as a muslem boy,our religion tell us to respect everyone by their personality and character not by their body or clothes,jewelery,car or anything like that. now dont be worry about future,and believe that if your friends love you just because of your body or womanhood so they will leave you as soon as you got old. try to find friends that love you because of your mind and ideas.not because you have a pretty car,clothes or beautiful face
in other hand you are one of God creatures,and if you believe in God's power and knowledege so be sure that God never makes anything ugly,all God's creatures are beautiful ,just we must change our point of view about it.
For those who believe that confidence can only be gained through looks, the standard solution is diet/exercise.
However, confidence despite looks, is truer confidence
Stop trying to valid yourself by people, you will never be pleasing to everyone. Then you gotta know that how you are, only 1 will ever exist, you are unique, that's what makes you and each individual person special. With that, be happy to be yourself!! It's a blessing.
get a hair cut you really like
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Well, all i can say is that all of this is in ur mind. I used to think the same way about me, but then i realized that I was wrong. Everytime u look in the mirror, give yourself a compliment.
If everytime you look at yourself in da mirror and u tell yourself " Im so ugly, or im so fat, or oh look at that thing in ma face" then u are sending bad energy, and people are going to look at you the way you are thinking. All im saying is that you shouldnt think things that are not good for you, try to think things that are good for you so people see u the way they should.
U should see a movie/documentary called "THE SECRET" I think it will really help you. I think the webpage is www.thesecret.tv
im not sure
try to look good!
do something worthwhile in life then you will BE good not just look good
u can always work out, build some self esteem
Open your mind about yourself, and tell yourself, "I know who I am and there's nothing anyone can do to change me" It helped me.
Well first I would talk to your mom or dad about this! You should always listen to your parents! But you should always keep telling yourself I can do it! Never listen to someone when they say something mean to you !
It's something you don't gain overnight. It took me a long time to be confident. I still struggle with it sometimes. You just have to force yourself to try new things. If you think confidently then you will be confident. Stand straight, head up, and smile. The rest will come eventually. You are at a very tough age. Things will get better I promise. Just don't focus on it too much. Worry about your grades for now. :) I wish somebody had told me that when I was 15.
There is a book out called the Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren and it explains why YOU are here on earth. I think everyone should read it. I am in my 60's and as a girl I did not have any confidence but this book has been such a good thing for me even at this age, that I have bought it for several young people. If you cannot afford to buy it see if it is on line so you can read it or check it out at the library it is wonderful! Good luck
Take walks or do some kind of physical activity believe it or not it really does help your self esteem. Try to make contributions to your community and do good in school or go back to school. When you are doing good things you will feel good about yourself. Feeling good about yourself should not be entirely based on what you look like either because you can be a beautiful person that is empty on the inside. I have seen it so many times people that spend all their time developing their beauty that they forget about their brain.
First...you don't GET confidence, you HAVE confidence.
Second..You MUST love yourself before anyone else will.
REMEMBER: God made you. You are special, unique, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14 - I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. Psalm 139:13-15).
Your body is going thru its growth process. What looks 'weird' or 'out of place' now, will be as beautiful as you were designed to be.
Just keep repeating that passage of scripture above and believe it to be true (because it is and you are), and you'll look back on these awkward years of your life and laugh when you think of how silly this all was.
GOD BLESS YOU!
hi dear
as a muslem boy,our religion tell us to respect everyone by their personality and character not by their body or clothes,jewelery,car or anything like that. now dont be worry about future,and believe that if your friends love you just because of your body or womanhood so they will leave you as soon as you got old. try to find friends that love you because of your mind and ideas.not because you have a pretty car,clothes or beautiful face
in other hand you are one of God creatures,and if you believe in God's power and knowledege so be sure that God never makes anything ugly,all God's creatures are beautiful ,just we must change our point of view about it.
For those who believe that confidence can only be gained through looks, the standard solution is diet/exercise.
However, confidence despite looks, is truer confidence
Stop trying to valid yourself by people, you will never be pleasing to everyone. Then you gotta know that how you are, only 1 will ever exist, you are unique, that's what makes you and each individual person special. With that, be happy to be yourself!! It's a blessing.
get a hair cut you really like
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