I'm over it...NOT?
I met this guy about 5 months ago.
He used to be one
of the nicest guy I've ever met
but he changed over time.
We didn't hangout
as much as we used to
and we didn't talk as much.
I miss him more than he knows
but i know time keeps
him moved on.
Sometime he acknowledges
me and we try to hangout
but it wasn't like it used to be.
I secretly liked
this guy for a long time
and I can't get him off my mind.
& i should be moving on by now
but i can't.
I try to give other guys
a chance but all i think about is him.
& how we're used to be.
I'm going insane
:(
Any advices out there?
I would appreciate the help.
Answer:
Sounds like your in love with a memory. Your entry is about how he used to be,how much hes changed and your over him NOT... Stuck in the past by the sounds of it.
For what ever reason you were attracted to him once apon a time, he obviously didnt display those qualities the last time you were together or you wouldnt have stated it wasnt like it used to be.
They say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. I firmly believe that. Go for the next guy your physically attracted too and bonk his brains out. For your sake I hope hes a crackin screw :-)
Just ask him to go back out with you... threaten him!
Get over it...now. stop thinking about him.
then i think u should go to do something else and forget about this... don let someone cause a halt to ur life
give it more time
You need 1 on 1 counselling to deal with this. You can' t do it by yourself, and books are not adequate. Get a therapist.
STOP IT!! lol talk to him!
Well, sorry to say, these things happen. Time goes on. It is just life. Remember that there are more important things in life. Just try to move on, still be friends, but just try to move on. I know it might be hard to, but all you can do is try. Life goes/moves on.
if things are meant to be then it will happen.it would suck even worse if u and this guy ended up dating and u fell in love and u were together for a long time and then he broke up with u..would hurt pretty bad...one day u will find another guy who you really like and he will like u back and it will be great.just be patient
What do you mean by hanging out? Did you date him or not?
If not, date him.
If you were dating him, and he's not interested anymore, and he's changed for the worse, as you've noted, you'd be better off just being single until someone else comes along.
Yeah, it hurts. That happens to everyone. Just live with it.
Can you tell him how you feel? I am a believer of facing this issued head on before it is too late. I am older now, but I still can remember the faces and names of guys I fell in love with. It was real, and now it doesn't hurt, but I still remember.
your question look like a song lyric to me...is it? lol
I think you should tell him about whats been going on because if you don't i think he will stay on your mind more and more
Maybe your not his type, just move on its just a crush! on the other hand maybe he sees this relationship going somewhere "hes falling for you" and that makes him nervous because hes not ready to commit to a relationship yet!
You are nuts!
Talk to him. Ask him what changed since before. Tell him you miss the old him and that you care about him. If he rejects you then at least you can move on knowing things will never be how they used to be eh?
My advice for you is too see a psychiatrist as soon as possible.
move on. develop your own self a bit more, so you're not so hung up on people who couldn't give a crap about you. Why would you want the attention of someone who doesn't want you. And why would he want to pay attention to the puppy dog that follows him around all the time whining "please come back to me..." Follow your own interests, and do thing you enjoy (hiking, fishing, boating, gardening, photograph, drawing...) and you will become more interesting.
Good luck. When you find the right guy, he won't dump you. Dumping you means that he isn't the right guy for you. focusing on this guy all the time makes you be very uninteresting to everyone else, and you can't even honestly give another boy a chance because this first guy is so much in your thoughts.
move on.
let him move on, too.
He'll never realize he misses you if you keep hounding him.
That's the thing about girls, we can't "just be friends" like guys can. I am sure he'd treat you more like a friend if you would give up on the idea of ever being with him again, friends don't do that.
And of course he changed over time, that's what people do.
there is nothing like a new man to help you get over an old love. Go out and meet as many people as you can. Continue living and doing things, because you can't make someone love you. You will meet someone else, IF you are not stuck in the house watching tv on Friday and Sat. nite. Go for what you want. And pick up the book, He 's not really into you. I wish I had read it when I was young. And please don't have sex with him. You will feel like a used newspaper after its over. It won't make him love you..
Go find the book: "He's Just Not Into You". The author is Greg Behrandt.
It sounds like he's not-into you that is. Next time you find a guy you really like try NOT sleeping with him. That will keep him interested. Let him learn about all the great things you have to offer, besides SEX. It makes a better, long-lasting relationship!
Get over him ! There are plenty more where he came from. No one likes a person too clingy or too needy.You obviously thought more about the relationship than he did.does he even know how you feel.? Go back and tell him .If that changes things for the better then go for it. If not move on chick!
ok dont waste your time one someone who dosnt think your worth there time
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