Do you ever analyze a man's glance to figure out whether you look good or not on that day?
I realized that I use men as a indication tool for measuring how good I look each day. Its funny as hell! Think about it... Have you ever found yourself thinking you dont look so good on a particular day and then realizing you look great because men are checking you out like crazy, or likewise? Or am I the only one paying attention?
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I'm focusing more on what women see when they look at me, but it's basically the same thing. I can tell that on some days I look twice as good as on other days.
It's great when you get feedback on how you're doing because you can find out what you're doing when things come out well and do more of that. And if you can get feedback in this kind of way, where it costs you nothing, that's even better.
Just don't focus on it too much or take it too seriously. It helps you find out what you're doing well. There's no need to make it any bigger than that.
Yeah, That is a sure self-esteem killer. Especially since the need is soo rooted in external validation. First of all, you can't read people's minds, and you don't know what they're thinking. Who cares if they glance at you one way or another it means nothing. What matters if you think you look good and more importantly...if you like yourself.
I watch them as they are watching me..I try to figure out what they may be thinking. & yea I observe myself real quick to see if I am drawing attention to myself in some way.
I think the only real mirrors are the ones in other people's eyes...we have a view that is based on whether we ate too much the other day, didn't get enough sleeps, have worn this top too often etc. The effect we have on others is a handy guide...but of course, how you feel inside - your level of self confidence will be the most attractive thing about you, so the more attractive you feel, the more attractive you become.
Namaste,
Tina Louise
You might be the only one with that perception of a man's glance. Men were born to notice women, that is their nature. Taking notice does not always mean you look good or that they want you. You could throw your dress up over your head and everyone would "glance" but would they want to know you? Use a mirror and let yourself be the judge. Be yourself and be responsible for yourself.
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I'm focusing more on what women see when they look at me, but it's basically the same thing. I can tell that on some days I look twice as good as on other days.
It's great when you get feedback on how you're doing because you can find out what you're doing when things come out well and do more of that. And if you can get feedback in this kind of way, where it costs you nothing, that's even better.
Just don't focus on it too much or take it too seriously. It helps you find out what you're doing well. There's no need to make it any bigger than that.
Yeah, That is a sure self-esteem killer. Especially since the need is soo rooted in external validation. First of all, you can't read people's minds, and you don't know what they're thinking. Who cares if they glance at you one way or another it means nothing. What matters if you think you look good and more importantly...if you like yourself.
I watch them as they are watching me..I try to figure out what they may be thinking. & yea I observe myself real quick to see if I am drawing attention to myself in some way.
I think the only real mirrors are the ones in other people's eyes...we have a view that is based on whether we ate too much the other day, didn't get enough sleeps, have worn this top too often etc. The effect we have on others is a handy guide...but of course, how you feel inside - your level of self confidence will be the most attractive thing about you, so the more attractive you feel, the more attractive you become.
Namaste,
Tina Louise
You might be the only one with that perception of a man's glance. Men were born to notice women, that is their nature. Taking notice does not always mean you look good or that they want you. You could throw your dress up over your head and everyone would "glance" but would they want to know you? Use a mirror and let yourself be the judge. Be yourself and be responsible for yourself.
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