How do i overcome low self esteem and believe i can make it in life?
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Stop for a little while looking only at yourself, your life, your faults, your disappointments your various mess ups.
Look around at the people around you - see how many faults they have, how many disappointments they have, how many mess ups they've made-and yet they walk about without apology as if they own the world - and they do as YOU DO.
You have absolutely every right to occupy the space you do as you are. Everything about you is acceptable. You have plenty that is rubbish and you also have plenty that is good and plenty that is in fills the space between those two extremes.
Accept and love yourself - you are unique and special.
Im trying to figure that out myself
Get confident, stupid.
try to discover your hidden talents and be realistic. then develop your talents and be proud of it. life is difficult but there ways to make it easier. always keep in touch with those who really love you and you will be fine.
Be yourself not you body!
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I found that through the techniques of Scientology I could learn who I really was. Once I knew that I could make more rational decision.
Low self esteem comes from past upsets, disagreements and other detrimental experiences. Scientology technique can give you the tool to deal with and get rid of them.
you are a woman, of course you can make it, read the bible, exercise, concentrate on your health, read books and improve yourself on whatever your job or career is. you dont have to beautiful on the outside with a ton of makeup and big cleavage to attract people., just be beautiful on the inside
You have to define what "make it" in life means. For Adolf Hitler it meant being dictater. For help with self-esteem, read the very short article on this page below. Plus it helps you become happier.
http://www.phifoundation.org/enlightenme...
One thing that keeps people locked into low self esteem is the constant need to compare themselves to others who they perceive as successful and the " movers and shakers" in life. Once you learn to focus on you and only you, then you can recognize not only your own weaknesses but your many strengths as well, and you will find ways to become more comfortable in your own skin. Learn to step out of bounds every now and then, and out of your " safe " zone.... just to see what will happen. Who knows... you just might like living on the edge every now and then.
I used to have some problems with self-esteem. Unfortunately, dwelling on all of the problems I thought I had didn't make it any better. The best way to rid yourself of low esteem is through action. Little things help you to feel better. Simple physical activities and hobbies are a great way to stop dwelling on the negative. Gardening was always a great way for me to do something productive. Currently, I'm into pottery.
As far as making it in life goes... just remember that life always has a way of working itself out. You don't necessarily have to BELIEVE that you can make it. Of course you'll make it in life. Follow your interests. Do things you think you enjoy. Doors will open for you.
Above all, remember that we're all in the same boat. Everyone worries that they're not good enough sometimes. The important thing is that you don't let those feelings of self doubt keep you from doing the things you love. Who cares what other people think?
first you have to accept what you can do and what you can't do.
try to focus on what you are best at.
and improve on it.
there is no such thing as a loser...everyone is gifted in their own...
if you still feel otherwise...then..are you just going to sit and watch the sun go down..or would it be better if you try and feel the wind...soaring high..
life is not something based on who's great..genius..and beautiful..life is how you make it..do you want..be what you want..its all yours for the making...
go out..try to make new friends...learn from them...observe..other people..how they behave..if you..read magazines..books..on how to improve yourself..
live life everyday...do things that you have never done before..plan something that would make you busy..and enjoy life..
if you have plans for the future..then you have something to look forward to..
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