Have you noticed how people fear quietness, especially when one with others. Why do you think that is?
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some people like to hear themselves talk, and often don't know how to be in a space that is quiet, when with others. they think that interaction must occur on the surface, in the form of speech all the time, to be valuable. if they would just shut up, they would see that there is so much more that is telling, going on around them. have you noticed how unaware these types are of themselves and their environment? they can't bear to think that everything else does not orbit around themselves. and what of their environment, do you suppose they have ever noticed the detail in nature, for instance. these are the shallow ones who live for gossippy chit-chat and the next reality show.
Some people are under the impression that silence is awkward. But they just haven't learned yet - that much can be said without saying a single word. I enjoy periods of silence, it's very tranquil.
Because when you are with someone you don't know very well you don't know what they are thinking so people talk to avoid "uncomfortable silences" also people don't want the other to be bored, so they talk...I guess.
I think most people find that the quiet is awkward, I'm guessing because it shows that either the people don't want to be with you/talk to you or they have nothing in common with you. I imagine it as the same way with animals in a Pack. People are pack animals.
auditory hallucinations.
When your with people and nothing is said, it leaves room for your brain to consider what they are thinking about you, and it is human nature to assume that they are thinking the worst. Also it could be that your afraid that they'll become bored with you.
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