Help me out someone. any one?

hv u ever felt like just being u isnt enuff? cuz that is just they way i feel. i keep finding myself luking at other people and wistfully hoping that some day i may get to b like them. i keep hoping for a miracle out of the ordinary. what shud i do? in doing so, i am ruining myself... i keep fantasizing about an imaginary me. not some1 i am... but some1 i want to be. i know it is not healthy. but i cant seem to fight it.

Answer:
God created you a unique, special person. You have talents, gifts and personality different from everyone else in the world. It's okay to notice the talents of others, but don't envy them. Work hard to develop the abilities you have to be the best YOU you can be. Sure, I'd love to sing like Kelly Clarkson or write like the Harry Potter author, but those are not my abilities. I happen to be a good teacher and mother, and do what I can to do better at those things.

Work on the real you. If you're not sure who that is, take some classes, try some things to find out what it is you're good at. Give of your self to others less fortunate, it's a good way to get your mind off of yourself.
What? I don't understand your wording.
The grass is always greener.... You need to occupy your mind more. Think positive, get a hobby, fall in love....have a drink!
good luck
well, thats a problem, you cant change yourself, thats just wrong, other people (as happy as they look) dont want to be themselves.
believe me, im one of them people, i act like theres nothing bothering me and i have a perfect life when im actually wishing i was dead inside , lol, emolicious.
it sounds to me that you really might not know who you are, nothign is going to change for you unless you get up off the computer chair (j/k) and do something to change it, if you want to find out who you are try different thing take a pottery class, go sky diving, join a gym, do something your life will never just magicaly change you actually have to do something to make it happen for yourself!!
learn to LOVE yourself and try not tell yourself negative things.
in the end you are who you are and you cant change it just accept it its much easier then to beat yourself up for not being some one else,and the people that you desperately want to be like are just like you there people and they have problems,no ones perfect and lets not fool ourselves into thinking so.
I don't get it. Why is wanting to be something else so bad? I think it's good for you to have a mental picture in your mind of what/how you want to be. There's always room for improvement in our lives. What you're doing would be called visualization. It's looking ahead and showing yourself what you want to become. People can change! You just have to want to really bad. Keep imagining how you want to become. Don't stop. It'll make you a better person. Miracles do happen!
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