Does anyone find it hard to maintain your own sense of identity?
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,,,,.The problem is that in order to get along, we go along. We conform to the expectations of others. If this leads us to thoughts and actions that aren't what we would have wanted, we become less real, less authentic, less ourselves.
The most healthy relationships encourage the other person to be themselves, even if it not only is not like us, but even causes misunderstanding or conflicts.
You see, the problem is, what if we conform and are never true to ourselves even until the moment of our death...then we will realize that we had not really lived, that we had utterly wasted our lives.
yeah, personally i dont know who i am. everything about me doesnt feel right, nothing original left
I lost my entire identity seven years ago and now I have no idea who I am...
I believe that is true in some ways, but you have to maintain your own life and identity from the beginning. You see, that's the mistakes we make as couples. We see are ourselves as the union, and that only thing different means separation and discontent for our relationship. People spend every waking moment with their lover and mesh their entire life into theirs, leaving them with nothing when the relationship is over.
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