Winning arguments mean that im smart ?

i win many arguments everyday, with my teachers with my parents, my sister im 16 years old by the way
i dnt remember any argument where i didnt win and im also good at persuading ppl and convincing them so wt does that mean ? is it that im smart ? is it that i have a skill ? what skill ?
how can i develop it ?
plz dnt say that crap about my spelling im a foreignor....

Answer:
I would say you have effective communication and understand logic!
Not necessarily, if just putting a convincing argument is your strength you are cunning or maybe charming (or maybe just right). Being smart is a combination of many different abilities. How well your memory works, how well can you process abstract thinking, how resourceful are you at resolving problems, how verbose are you; just to name a few.
Your ability for debate can be developed by reading (A LOT), studying logic, ethics, history and political science. Seek for LD debate groups for serious challenges and VERY critical analysis of your persuading 'ability'.
You didn't convince me that your smart so probably not..I'd say your just annoying and stubborn so they just give up and let you think you won.. so they can get rid of you.
Another reason may be because a lot of people don't like to argue, or what you might perceive as debate.

They'd rather yield to you because they may feel you're not going to see their point of view: that you aren't appreciating their input.

Not to mention that it's distasteful and boorish to brag that you always win.
Does not mean you are smart - mean you are a smart-***. I hope you are wise enough to know the difference. Try closing your mouth for a change and actually listening to what others are saying, you may find that actually you do not know very much.
Winning arguments may mean you are smart, or you might have the upper hand because of a personality trait. Humanmetrics.com has a personality test that help breakdown your personality traits. The first characteristic distinguishes between Extraverts and Introverts - Extraverts usually have the upper hand, because they over talk people and don't let them get a word in. Additionally, you may be a Thinker vs a Feeler, where you value logic and reason over emotions and feelings. If you are an etraverted thinker, then you can usually out talk and out think the person that you are debating with. However, you may be highly intelligent, but it comes down to balance. Just because you win the argument, doesn't necessarily mean that it is easy for you to make friends, work in teams, or excel in social situations, which can be a downside. Instead of arguing, why don't you try to help others improve themselves - gained knowledge not used - is the same as not having the knowlege at all - uplifting people is better then just being right in my opinion.

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