Why life is so unfair ?

A broken-hearted girl always has guys available to make her forget; but a heart-broken guy not, because a guy is supposed to flirt to get consolation, but a heart-broken one is never in that mood.

Answer:
You are very wrong. A broken-hearted woman does NOT always have guys available. I've been looking and waiting for quite a while.

Still, it is true that life is unfair, but there's no use asking why. It just is.
I don't think thats true.if the broken hearted guys friends were true they would be there for him and help him through it.he would probably have to risk showing them that he is actually broken hearted though...something girls find a lot easier to do than guys I think
forget relationships.finances is what kills people, without food who can live.
just learn to bounce right back and it'll be smooth sailing ever after
i dont think you should have to flirt to feel better.

when i was broken hearted i would write in my notebook how i was feeling and then do something that made me happy!
if life was 'fair' there would be no challenges
life would be boring and there would be no sense of real accomplishment
None of us have a "perfect" past. The fact is that we live in a sinful world. However, problems arise when we see life from an "UNFAIR" perspective. When we see ourselves as victims, we become caught in our circumstance whether it be a past or present experience. Our natural response to negative situations is anger. Of course, we have to direct anger toward someone or something. If we direct anger toward others, then offenses follow. If we direct it toward ourselves, then we enslave ourselves. Guilt often follows the anger. Then depression follows the guilt. We feel bad; therefore, we try to find things to compensate for the bad feelings. Addictions often arise at this point. Addictions are things in which we bury ourselves, often to cover negative feelings that arise out of thought of feeling that life is unfair.
The truth is that we all deserve HELL. One may say, "But I haven't been such a bad person." The truth is that we have all rebelled against our Maker. Another truth is that we as individuals are not unique concerning being tempted with thoughts that life is unfair. "There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man ..." (I Corinthians 10:13). I have worked with many people that have been abused and had temptations toward all kinds of addictions (alcohol, drugs, sexual addictions including homosexuality, work, and relationship addictions). Solomon said, "...there is no new thing under the sun." (Ecclesiastes. 1:9). The New Age movement is not new at all. It is an old religious philosophy with a new name. Again, the issue often is in our thinking. I have desired to have a ministry like Billy Graham's, but didn't and thought that it was unfair.

I hope this helps!!
Because YOU made it unfair.It's you that controls your life,not anybody else.
You need to suck it up and move on there's a new girl at ever stop or did your daddy never tell tell that!!
be a billionare, then you can get whoever you want
Thats not true at all...everyone accepts things and goes through things differently. We all have our own way of handling things. Thats just how we are made.
girls DO have guys available..but MOST of them are usually to freakin shallow to KNOW the guy. the first thing they do is judge them by the looks. thats THE problem.
I'll comfort you if you need some comforting babee.LOL
Life is what u make it.
That is just your perception. Life is not unfair. No one told you to come to the material world where there is pain, misery, strife, heart break, the pain of birth, death, old age and disease. Only one fourth of the souls come to the material world. (the less intelligent ones, -That's us) so if we think life is unfair here then we should take up the process to not do this again. We are eternal spirit souls. We never die, only the body dies. So We have to make our next destination. IT is only due to past life activities that we are having the situations we are getting now. (Karma) what goes around comes around. It is all fare when yo see the biiig picture. For info on karma, reincarnation, and how to end all misery. go to harekrishnatemple.com Read Bhagavad Gita as it is BY Bhaktivedana Prabhupada-tells all. I love it.

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