Skools r comin...boarding...tough life...ruled over by seniors...help me in this plz...?

how do i adapt myself mentally to my boardin skool before i get there...which is this sunday? there r seniors...who sorta rule over us...give us work to do...then sometimes they even beat me...plus i have to face living away from family n facing taunts from classmates for the next 5 n a half month...how do i adapt myself mentally to da surroundings BEFORE i get to skool? n my parents live abroad, so i cant even meet them...n im barely 14...cn u help me out?

Answer:
I know that your situation must be difficult for you, however you are not alone in this situation. Upper class-men have been bullying younger class-men forever. I think you need to stand on your principles, even though it will not be easy to do. You must not show the seniors that you are afraid, for they will take that and use it against you as showing signs of weakness. You have every right to be afraid, but do not let them see your fear. If you stand up for yourself, they will be much more respectful of you. I am not saying it is going to be easy, but it will pay off in the long run. I agree, you must align yourself with friends that are in the same situation as you. If you could befriend a decent, mature, upper class-men, that could be a huge help. Sorry you are going through this rough period, but one day when you are the "senior" remember how you felt, and don't fall into the payback mode. Good Luck, and best wishes
Why are u going boarding school anyways? Just try to avoid them.
My first suggestion would be that you focus on finding other kids there in your same situation and then try and encourage them to all hang out together as much as possible. There is usually a strength in numbers and other students will be less likely to pick on you if you are in a group...the larger the better.
just prove them wrong and try to show to them that you have to be respected...
Just try to be friendly to everyone and you will find that it is not all that bad.

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