Do you think it is a bad idea to ask out a girl whose ex-bf is in prison for stalking and abusing her?

She broke up with him but he couldn't take it and ended up threatening her and abusing her and ignoring court orders to stay away from her.

I am worried he may get jealous and after coming out of prison and tries to bother her new bf as he apparently still has feeling for her and can't seem to let go.

Oh and she is P.R.E.T.T.Y

Answer:
You should be asking yourself why you are attracted to women who are the victims of abuse or why you are attracted to women who have a great deal of problems and are a mess.

Your girlfriend and you could both be in danger. You should call a non-profit agency that specializes in abuse or a therapist. You could both end up dead.

Being pretty is not a reason to date someone, especially if the beginning of your relationship is finding a way to constantly protect her while she constantly complains about her safety.

She should cut off all contact, but abuse victims usually don't. They feel too much fear while others need to be victimized. Either way - this is a complete mess - a dangerous mess - and one that needs professional help.

Especially for her. She should be speaking to a therapist today while he is in jail and she has time to get professional advice on a permanent and safe escape plan with or without you.
Depends on when the boyfriend gets out of prison

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