Can a personality be constructed?
Some time's I think I have no personlity. I want to have a good, out going personlity. How would I go about that?
Answer:
I think it's normal to feel a little "boring" at some point in your life. Don't feel bad about yourself!
I'm naturally shy, so what I did was I picked a person I knew who could talk to ANYONE about ANYTHING, and I just copied her. I would use her phrases and mannerisms, and I would ask myself "What would Melissa say?" I actually asked her if this was ok, and she was cool with it... otherwise, it could be a little weird.
But after a while, I figured out that if I approached a situation with a good attitude, people usually responeded in a positive manner. And then stuff wasn't as scary. I hope that will help you to become more outgoing.
As for the personality, I do think it can be constructed to a degree. The cool thing about being a human is that we can choose our response to any situation. Maybe we can't choose the situation, but we can choose the response. That gives you a lot of freedom to choose what things are a part of your life. Follow your heart, and you won't go astray.
you do have a personality. all of your own, its just hard for you to see the sunshine in it yourself.You can't pretend to be something else then your fake, I'm sure your great just like you are.
of course. people werent born with it, it was learned. now why would you want to make yourself do something you dont want like going out.
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Answer:
I think it's normal to feel a little "boring" at some point in your life. Don't feel bad about yourself!
I'm naturally shy, so what I did was I picked a person I knew who could talk to ANYONE about ANYTHING, and I just copied her. I would use her phrases and mannerisms, and I would ask myself "What would Melissa say?" I actually asked her if this was ok, and she was cool with it... otherwise, it could be a little weird.
But after a while, I figured out that if I approached a situation with a good attitude, people usually responeded in a positive manner. And then stuff wasn't as scary. I hope that will help you to become more outgoing.
As for the personality, I do think it can be constructed to a degree. The cool thing about being a human is that we can choose our response to any situation. Maybe we can't choose the situation, but we can choose the response. That gives you a lot of freedom to choose what things are a part of your life. Follow your heart, and you won't go astray.
you do have a personality. all of your own, its just hard for you to see the sunshine in it yourself.You can't pretend to be something else then your fake, I'm sure your great just like you are.
of course. people werent born with it, it was learned. now why would you want to make yourself do something you dont want like going out.
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