The hurtful effects of Friends with benefits?
I am fortune's fool. Love has taken its toll on me.
There is nothing good about friends with benefits. You eventually get feelings with one another and things get complicated. It is hard to like different girls and fool around with them. The time period when I'm with one of my friends doing stuff, I would unintentionally develop sour feelings for the other girls. And when i'm with different girl, the process repeats. This would explain why some of my friends say i have "mood swings" being nice one time and then hurtful in another time. I'm starting to be aware my so called "bipolar" personality and hows it has a negative impact.
I don't know what to do now. Shall I break the benefits and make everyone angry even more or shall I keep it up and let everyone suffer or shall i do something else?
Answer:
not just you is it?....generation statement friends with benifits. Prehaps you should first discover who you are and then the right girl will find you?...i would imagine its quite a precarious position to be 'the friends'...the girls hold no cards...needy..cloying...in... if your shareing the space it will effect you. prehaps if your not enjoying the game you really should try a new one.
Always seems like a good idea until it is not. Break it off and get your **** together. Look out for you! Good luck!
Friends with benefits never works, and it's very hard to get emotionally attached and not be able to say "You cheated on me", since you're ,ahem, just friends?
Nowadays, when I say 'friend with benefits' I either mean a random hookup with a friend of a friend, never long term
if I were you, I would just back off from all the girls for now. Just tell the ladies that you are having some issues and the best thing is to not participate in the benefits. Maybe you can only handle one friend.
Don't you mean how do you fool around with a gangle of girls when you have bi-polar disorder? You're right. It's pretty complicated. Easier to just have one girlfriend who knows about your condition and is willing to be patient with you. My favorite part is when the poor girl who's in love keeps telling herself that it doesn't matter what the boy feels about her or about all the other women.
The first step is to admit you have a problem. Now you need to do something about it! Like go to your doctor and let him refer you to a psychiatrist or therapist. Don't lose your friends. Help yourself get better.
Good luck!
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