Why can't i get him off my mind?

i went out with this guy for about 3 months but i knew him for five...he was my first real real boyfriend..he was my first almost love but we didn't last that long..he treated me differently like no other boy had ever did before..none.. i ignored his phone call cauz i felt he was cheating with his baby mom..now 7 months later i can't get him off my mind..Is it because i don't have anyone at the moment are do i really miss him?? when i wake up i think of him before i go to bed i think of him?? What is it?? And do u think i should call him and if so what should i say?? Or should i just move on..by the way it's funny cauz am still a virgin and no matter if he did cheated on my after all this time i still want him to be my first whether i love him or no beacuse out anyone in the world i would prefer it to be him..so Help plz

Answer:
you can just write an email to him... and just write...

WILL YOU MARRY ME?

then wait for his reply. if he is sincere with you he will say yes. obviously BUT if he doesn't reply, give him a second chance send sms to him or go to him and hand over a paper to him written on it the same question... because he might not receive the email or might get it deleted accidentally so try 3 times... and last attempt should be clear that is YOU hand over him a paper. ok?

I think you should try this atleast you will be clear to yourself and can then take decision for your life with out any hesitation.

Its a matter of heart dear but always remember Feelings and love is there because of the life... so your priority should be your good life.

All the best (Y)
depends on your age. If you're over 18 then drop him a note and ask him to call. You can discuss on the phone what happened from your side and see how he responds. See if he was seeing his baby's mother. Remember though that he has responsibilities elsewhere, will have to include the other woman in his life, and you "may" come last in his life. Granted most people remember their first love, their first puppy love, their first attraction all their lives. Sometimes we remember them so well that during our life we compare everyone else to that person, which is the wrong thing to do.
be pation and move on trust me he know how he is playing you. remember he has a kid and I'm sure ones he gets what he want he going to move on and who knows you will become is babe mom to like the other girl that's not a responsible man. not unless you like to get played

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