What do you do when your fiancee has been raped and impregnated a few days to wedding?
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Panic?
call the wedding off for the time being
First get her help! Postpone the wedding...wow good luck, I hope this is a hypothetical question.
Cancel the wedding, support her in anyway you can and make sure she seeks help. I wish you good blessings.
Take a morning after pill, get tested for STDs and proceed as planned.
Don't let the rapist win.
Oh, and do not forget to report it.
Don't cancel or postpone the wedding as a reaction, it could be seen that she's now damaged goods and you don't want her now. So ask her what she wants to do before suggesting changing your plans.
call cops, postpone wedding, support any decision she makes, kill rapist.
Well obviously she didnt just get raped, or you wouldnt know she is pregnant already. If you love someone - you love them unconditionally. Your fiance didnt asked to be raped... This is a huge test of your self worth and what you stand for. You have to be able to communicate with her about it. Be honest..and deal with what ever comes your way.
Whew! this is a difficult one. Ist I hope you have reported this terrible crime to the police, 2nd postphone the wedding for the time being, if you trully love her, stand by her, as she needs you more than ever right now and I hope both you have seeked some counselling to help you through this difficult situation.
Good luck
Raise the child to be a trained assassin and when he/she is old enough release them onto the rapist so he/she can kill their own father in an act of beautiful poetic justice.
Tarintino couldn't have done it better.
report it. support her and ask her what she wants to do. dont assume because of this tradgedy she wont want her life to continue as normal.
Why, has it happened to your fiancee?If not you've got a sick mind pal...
If you love the girl you must support her the way she wants. Which may not be the way you think is best.
The rape cannot be in the last couple of days if you already know she's pregnant. Or could it be the girl was already pregnant?
Call the police, listen to their advice and make a decision about the immediate future (i.e. the wedding) in discussion with your fiancee.
Love her, be patient with her and be honest with yourself. If the thought of being with her after she's been raped means that you have changed the way you feel about her, get some counselling to address this without letting her know. The decisions you make now may be repented at a later stage.
Good luck.
support her in any way you can and let her decide as to whether the wedding should be postponed
How horrible for both of you. At this time she needs your support [hook, line and sinker], however you feel about this. She is not unclean or any less of a person than she was before, although she may need tests for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. She may wish to delay the wedding - talk openly with her about any decision that affects you both.
Above all, she needs your love. Peace and good luck to you both.
Hi
Show her the love and support she needs.
Ray. West York's. U.K.
First, i am sorry for your joint trouble.
Do not underestimate the effect that this may have on your fiance and your self. It is easy to say "stand by her", "dont let the rapist win" etc, this is obviously the moral position to take, however....
On a practical basis it could be that your fiances feelings towards men in general and you in particualr may change, might not, might be temporary, might be permanent though?
You do not know what your own genuine reaction to this may be yet, its early days you will still be in a state of grief, possibly denying the full impact of things subconciously.
Talk to your girl, ask how she feels about it, give her reassurance but explain that you both need to deal single mindedly with what has happened before getting your lives back on course from a proper footing. Trying to carry on regardless and papering over psychological cracks is a bad strategy. see the professionals in any field you need to, support each other.
Dont forget that your own feelings are real, people can not moralise and tell you what to feel.
Good luck
If you love her and she is telling you the truth then you have no reason not to marry her. If you truly love her then you will love her child. How would you like it if your fiancee called off the wedding because you were raped? You can't punish her for someone else's action. You can raise the child to be good and be there for your wife or you can go stick your head in the sand. I'd prefer to get married than have a nostril full of sand.
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