MEN ONLY PLEASE: What do men want in a significant other? What do men NOT want in a significant other?
What things do you love about having a woman in your life? What things can't you stand about having a woman in your life?
The things you can't stand...please explain why.
Just looking for some insight on how the male brain works. Thanks!
Answer:
Everyone's different, so this is just me personally.
What I look for in the significant other isn't just another pretty face, it's much more than that. Some traits I look for are:
- Someone down-to-earth: Doesn't think she's better than anyone else, and doesn't act highly of themselves.
- Someone who I can talk to about anything: Be there for me, talk to about anything, and someone that cares.
- Things I have in common: Sure it's a given, but just some things we can both enjoy together.
- Takes care of their body: Physically cares about their well-being, and stays active.
- Be different from the rest - not your average girl, someone who's here to stay, and likes me for who I really am.
Some things I just can't stand are if the girl is ignorant and quick to judge: Trust is the number one thing in a relationship, and if she bases her opinions off too radically and doesn't really trust me, then it just won't work.
Also if they don't really get to know who I really am on the inside, or date around frequently - I'm not looking for just another fling, I want to feel something real in a relationship.
And ever hear the phrase "Opposites attract?" I'm sure this isn't for everyone, but I believe in that sometimes - to have someone else completely different around, someone who will keep you on your toes, and keep your relationship spicy and interesting, who doesn't want that?
Not all males are like this though - everyone's different in their perspective on relationships, because everyone wants a different type of girl.
Anyway, hope this helps :)
ever hear of the Virgin Mary / Whore complex.
as for what we don't want - No fat chicks.
ok...here's how mine works:
Love:
The companionship, the warmth, the good times, the emotional honeymoon, the passion, waking up to her smile, falling asleep with her head on my shoulder
Can live without:
The God awful moodswings that include screaming and throwing things, when she asks: does this look good on me, mother in laws, family gettogethers where the gay uncle gets drunk and hits on his sisters kid, arguing over bills, family gettogethers, the part where you come home and theres no note but half the things are gone and she took all the toilet paper, family gettogethers, etc
i'm singe. but I'll pretend im not.
1. just feeling loved and needed
things i don't like...
bitchiness, nagging, yelling, getting mad over petty stuff, P.M.S.! and the talking. god... the talking. it's not bad as long as I can get a word in. but i'm sorry... I don't want to talk on the phone until 5 a.m.
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