Why cant i think like a 20 year old guy?
IM 20 but it seems like im 30 when it comes to the oppoisite sex. I look around at my other friends and they just have girlfriedn after girlfriend and they dont care and some of my friends just have little booty calls but for me I cant do that. I dont want twently girls.I went just one girl where I kno I can count on to be there. Im freakin thinkin about marriage when my friends are thinking about the next girl they are gonna try to get at. Is there somekind of psychological thing that explains this??
Answer:
I tended to be like you at your age too.
Some people are just naturally drawn to more steady intimate relationships. There are more psychological theories on why that could be than can be covered here. Some would be that you have a lower need for *thrill seeking*; that you have more highly developed intimacy skills; that you are less extraverted; that you have fears about sex based on early experiences with your parents...the list goes on.
I think that realistically it is just different strokes for different folks. It is good to know what you know about yourself. Just go with it. One of the bigger mistakes in life is to fight your own disposition or try to ignore it.
Take care,
Michael
there's nothing wrong, you're just a lot more mature than your mates. iits really sweet that you want to find a girl that you can rely on but that only happens if you look for that special girl. Just don't forget to have fun
Aw how sweet. It's nice to hear that there are some emotionally responsible 20 year olds out there. And you feel that way because your parents raised you to be responsible. Good for them!
because you are much more sensitive and mature than your piers
I'd say your mind is just more develop.
It's not a bad thing to want one girl and to be thinking about marriage, you're not thinking like a 30 year old,40 etc.. i don't think it has to do with age because there's plenty of 30 year old mens who have their mentality screwed up and aren't as develop.
So consider your self lucky, you'll probably end up finding the right person rather than having a different partner every weekend.
no i think yourjust a little more grown up
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Answer:
I tended to be like you at your age too.
Some people are just naturally drawn to more steady intimate relationships. There are more psychological theories on why that could be than can be covered here. Some would be that you have a lower need for *thrill seeking*; that you have more highly developed intimacy skills; that you are less extraverted; that you have fears about sex based on early experiences with your parents...the list goes on.
I think that realistically it is just different strokes for different folks. It is good to know what you know about yourself. Just go with it. One of the bigger mistakes in life is to fight your own disposition or try to ignore it.
Take care,
Michael
there's nothing wrong, you're just a lot more mature than your mates. iits really sweet that you want to find a girl that you can rely on but that only happens if you look for that special girl. Just don't forget to have fun
Aw how sweet. It's nice to hear that there are some emotionally responsible 20 year olds out there. And you feel that way because your parents raised you to be responsible. Good for them!
because you are much more sensitive and mature than your piers
I'd say your mind is just more develop.
It's not a bad thing to want one girl and to be thinking about marriage, you're not thinking like a 30 year old,40 etc.. i don't think it has to do with age because there's plenty of 30 year old mens who have their mentality screwed up and aren't as develop.
So consider your self lucky, you'll probably end up finding the right person rather than having a different partner every weekend.
no i think yourjust a little more grown up
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